I actually met my boyfriend there last summer, and yes, seeing NYC from his quirky UWS apartment made it easy for me. I couldn't afford to live there without his income supplementing, as I have a more middle class level job. Actually, he wasn't able to either before his divorce (he had a house in Westchester Co and commuted in, which many people do . . . sometimes from hours away). But for us. . . it was pretty amazing. That is the the thing--a one bedroom in Manhattan is expensive, but not out of reach, so for couples it's not as bad as you'd think. It's cheaper than the bay area.