We are just realistic about the world. We are completely monogamous and in love, but every once in awhile it is nice to know or even think you still got it.
I'm also friendly with everyone everywhere I go... but that's not flirty in my book. Flirty is saying something a bit risque, holding a stare a little too long or smiling with a wicked twist to it... those looks no-one gets but him.
Today I was waiting in a teacher's lounge to start giving a speech during career day and this one cute teacher started talking to me. Before I knew it, we were kind of flirting.
I am madly in love with my DP, but it was kind of fun to be wanted and to flirt back. Of course nothing will ever come of it, but I had a spring in my step. When did you last flirt with someone?
What is your career? Do you have a child in that school?
To answer your question...serious flirting, years and years ago. Light flirting? Probably a week or so ago. I see of it more like joking around, though. It doesn't mean I find someone sexually attractive.
Why would I? I know whose bed she sleeps in every night. I also know that during "adult activities" she is not always thinking about me nor am I about her. I know at the end of the day who I am in a relationship with.
Nonsense. Find me a man who claims he never thinks about anyone other than the person he's with while having "maritals" and I'll show you a big fat liar.
Nonsense. Find me a man who claims he never thinks about anyone other than the person he's with while having "maritals" and I'll show you a big fat liar.
I have a flirtatious personality and so does DH. He knew it when he met me and that is what attracted him to me so therefore we don't have a problem with little innocent flirting.
We're the same way, I cnanot say when I last flitred a little but probably n the last week or so. . DH actually enjoys seeing me flirt a little if I want to. It is never anything more than that--DH is THE man for me, no question. He is not as much of a flirt as I am, but I have no issue with him flirting when he feels like it either. I guess I am just not the jealous type
I'm a bit of a flirt with people I know. I don't think I ever do it with complete strangers. There's a group of us that hang out together a lot (all married couples with kids around the same age) and we all tend to flirt a bit with each other.
It's harmless fun and a bit of a self esteem boost, which I think is good for our marriage.