I was 36, with 2 small kids a husband, a job I loved and life was good. My parents were still living, my health was good and we were still a couple of years from the heart attack that changed how my husband lives his life. You know the song Those Were The Days my friend I thought they'd never end we'd sing and dance forever and a day....we'd live the life we choose, we'd fight and never lose for we were young and sure to find our way. Oh, if that could only be so.