Traditions... how about running around flipping out like a chicken with my head cut off?
The one thing I MUST do before vacation is get a little waxing done and get a pedicure. Sometimes a haircut too. Hopefully I don't put it off until the day before vacation but that has happened.
I always do laundry the day before. We have to go to a laundromat so I can't just do a little everyday, I do it all the day before-- so the bulk of the packing is done when I finish washing clothes (it goes straight from the laundry bag to the suitcase. So there's packing. Picking up last minute things for the trip. Going to the bank. Setting up the taxi to the airport. Synching the palm pilot. I never cook-- too stressed out. Dinner will usually be sandwiches from the deli around the corner. Mostly I'm cleaning-- I HATE coming home to a messy house, but usually I have been so busy in the days leading up to the trip that the house is a mess by the day before we leave.
We don't have family traditions-- my husband is always a mess all his own-- he usually has tons of work to finish before we leave town, and is filing things so he won't have to on vacation, so he is often working very very late the night before we leave.
And I can never get any sleep. And we always take a very early flight, so I'm usually asleep at 2am and up at 4am. So I'm a wreck on day one.
Maybe-- just maybe-- this trip I can do a little better and ENJOY the anticipation rather than let it ruin me! I'm like this with every trip, not just Disney.