What is a snowflake?

This isn't about money, it is about being a snowflake because your parents had 2 cars.

BTW, My dads are was over 20 years old. so yeah, we weren't that rich. It was basically an antique, he had it for so long.

Cool! How many dads did you have? :lmao:

Oh, and I've just got to say, my food-stamped childhood can out-poverty ANY of you fat-cat suburban kids with your working CARS and your free-standing or semi-detached HOMES and your TWO parent families. So, there! ::yes:: :rotfl:

I win! :cool1:
 
I've heard the mama bear term as long as I can remember. The words snowflake and helicopter parents are newer for me but I hear them more and more.

They often fit perfectly. Whether some like it or not people that behave like this exist and whether you say snowflake or delicate flower (I've heard that one) or whatever, these words describe certain behaviors perfectly.

Why are some getting all bent out of shape over some words anyway? If they don't apply to you what do you care?
 
Cool! How many dads did you have? :lmao:

Oh, and I've just got to say, my food-stamped childhood can out-poverty ANY of you fat-cat suburban kids with your working CARS and your free-standing or semi-detached HOMES and your TWO parent families. So, there! ::yes:: :rotfl:

I win! :cool1:
My family was on foodstamps too! We even got government cheese and that awful orange juice in a can! Did I just top you?;)
 
But you don't know that. It could be the school's insurance company that demanded the change, not the parents at all.

The only time I ever contacted the bus company to see if something could be changed, was because after more than two years of hiking up hill across a busy road to accompany my kids to their bus stop, I was tired. I wanted to be able to send the kids out to catch the bus on their own, and while I was happy enough to let them play outside on our street by themselves, I was NOT going to have them crossing that major intersection alone. Especially since I've nearly been run over on that corner myself, more than once.

The bus company said sure, no problem, and the new stop was in front of my house. Woot! :banana:

I'm not a helicopter parent. I just didn't want to have to stand out in a snowstorm with my first grader. She can stand out there by herself. Cold air is good for kids!

(BTW, I totally agree that parents of adults should not be contacting universities or colleges on their behalf. Except in cases of mental illness or disability.)

Just wow! I'm surprised you didn't demand the town level the hill so you wouldn't have to spend any energy at all. This example is why I send my twins to a private school. You want the bus to stop right outside your house - PAY FOR IT!
 

Lady, you have lost your every loving mind. Sorry if my parents could afford 2 cars. Guess what, they NEVER used them to take me to school, I walked. Cant' you read. They never involved themselves in what was going on at my school, as long as I brought home good grades, so be it.

Again, as I posted earlier to someone, most people here have no idea what they are talking about.

PS, I grew up int he 70's too.l Everyone I knew had 2 cars.


We had two cars and we WERE poor! OMG, now that I think about it, some days my mom would drive us to the bus stop :scared1: and my dad always went to bat for us, ALWAYS! I'm a SNOWFLAKE!! :thumbsup2


You have to remember that when I was a child, having Autism or a neurological impairment was considered something to be embarassed about and hidden. Normal children walked to school and learned how to deal with life, so that's what I did from five years old through 18. I'm not saying it was easy and, at times, it was incredibly difficult. These were the days when a "personal attack" meant bloody noses and broken arms, not saying something that hurt someone's feelings.

But I learned how to avoid those kinds of bullies when I could, run when I couldn't avoid them, and take my beatings when I got caught. Frank McCourt put it best in his first chapter of Angela's Ashes:

"Snowflake", "NORMAL"??? You like labels, don't you?
 
Yeah I did. Probably poor choice of words. But can you explain to me, how this makes me a snowflake as That person implied? I mean I am exhibit B.
You are so not getting it. Here's the post you are referring to.
Not my community; I just work there. I live in the city. Not sure what kids do around here to get to school, I just know I'm not stopped by their buses nor do I see them waiting on corners for the bus.

I grew up in the 70's. Most of my friends had parents who only had one car. It was considered the norm. If a woman worked outside the home they might have two cars, but that was infrequent. DH went to school in the late 60's to early 70's. He walked to school too and his family only had one car up until the time his brothers started driving. Then they bought their cars with after-school jobs and fixed them up.

Anyone remember the term latchkey children? That was my generation. I remember some of my friends who'd go home to an empty house and cook up whatever Mom had left out for them. There was no calling your parents at work so they knew you got home; personal calls were frowned upon by the employer and could get that working mother fired.

Calling it bizarre when hearing of a family only having one car (which was the norm for the first 50 or so years of the automobile) could indicate a generational perception. Or it could be an indication of a snowflake's raising. After all, if it hasn't happened to you or it's not something you'd do or have heard of then it's just wrong, isn't kosher, or is totally whacked.
My friends, Exhibit B.
With each and every attack you make on me, you're proving my point over and over again. I never, at any time, said having two cars make anyone a snowflake. Those are your words, and that's what you're trying to make this about because it suits your purpose. But that's not what I said.

I said - and I'll try to say it again in another way because there seems to be a communication problem here -

To call something "bazaar" (which I'm inferring you to mean bizarre) simply because you've never experienced it, and to ridicule someone as wrong, odd or totally whacked because you've never experienced it, could be an indication of someone might have been raised as though the world revolved around them.

With each attacking, eyeroll, and "REALLY??!?! :scared1: You've got to be kidding" post you make toward me in hopes of belittling my experiences, and apparently the experiences of many people of my age, you're demonstrating my point again and again and again.
 
I've never seen anything like this. Around here, everyone under a mile walks to school unless the parents drive them, which many do because it is on the way to work. The buses pick up on designated street corners. There are buses that take disabled kids to school, and those do go house to house.

I tend to agree with mhsjax that some people have no clue what they are talking about. It is just another way to say "oh those kids these days. Why, when I was a child, I had to walk to school each day barefoot in the snow, uphill both ways." ;)


Me too but probably not in the same way as you. :laughing:
 
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I've heard the mama bear term as long as I can remember. The words snowflake and helicopter parents are newer for me but I hear them more and more.

They often fit perfectly. Whether some like it or not people that behave like this exist and whether you say snowflake or delicate flower (I've heard that one) or whatever, these words describe certain behaviors perfectly.

Why are some getting all bent out of shape over some words anyway? If they don't apply to you what do you care?
I think you hit the nail right on the head, Planogirl. Thank you.
 
My family was on foodstamps too! We even got government cheese and that awful orange juice in a can! Did I just top you?;)

A sister! :laughing:

My mom called orange juice "liquid gold" because it was so expensive. Me, I actually like the taste of that bitter canned stuff! There's nothing else quite like it...
 
Wow, this thread has me :sad2:.

What is the term for "overly-sensitive DIS posters"?
 
I've heard the mama bear term as long as I can remember. The words snowflake and helicopter parents are newer for me but I hear them more and more.

They often fit perfectly. Whether some like it or not people that behave like this exist and whether you say snowflake or delicate flower (I've heard that one) or whatever, these words describe certain behaviors perfectly.

Why are some getting all bent out of shape over some words anyway? If they don't apply to you what do you care?

Because I don't like over-generalizations and derogatory terms used for any child.
 
Wow, this thread has me :sad2:.

What is the term for "overly-sensitive DIS posters"?
I'd tell you but I'd probably get points for it.

Some people just need to calm down and back away from the keyboard. I've been called names all my life but they never really got to me unless the person doing the name-calling was someone who's love and respect was something I wanted. :rolleyes:
 
Just wow! I'm surprised you didn't demand the town level the hill so you wouldn't have to spend any energy at all. This example is why I send my twins to a private school. You want the bus to stop right outside your house - PAY FOR IT!

I asked, they said yes. :confused3 It cost them NOTHING extra, to send the bus down a different street. If they'd said no, I would have kept walking the kids to the stop, without complaint. What's wrong with a phone call and a nice question?

You will never get ANYTHING nice in life, if you're too afraid to ask.

And the problem wasn't the HILL. It was the intersection. It was listed in the paper as being among the worst in the city. At least once a month, I hear tires screeching and metal crunching at that intersection. My kids weren't allowed to cross it on their own until they were ten.
 
I asked, they said yes. :confused3 It cost them NOTHING extra, to send the bus down a different street. If they'd said no, I would have kept walking the kids to the stop, without complaint. What's wrong with a phone call and a nice question?

You will never get ANYTHING nice in life, if you're too afraid to ask.

And the problem wasn't the HILL. It was the intersection. It was listed in the paper as being among the worst in the city. At least once a month, I hear tires screeching and metal crunching at that intersection. My kids weren't allowed to cross it on their own until they were ten.
Oh Maggie, that post was bait for you to pick up. Don't take it, my friend. Walk away.
 
A sister! :laughing:

My mom called orange juice "liquid gold" because it was so expensive. Me, I actually like the taste of that bitter canned stuff! There's nothing else quite like it...

I liked government cheese. I remember my dad getting an institutional sized block of it one time.:lmao:
 


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