Imagineer5
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That sucks that all she got you was a candle. Is she having issues financially? I kwym about money and DH feeling he can spend some. I handle ours too so I have to tell him when he can and can't spend $. It sucks but he would never be able to survive with doing our bills and such.
That's sweet that he's getting you a push present but I agree, it's a little unexpected. I don't get the women that get angry when they don't get one. Um, hello, you just had a baby! Greatest gift ever!! Sheesh.
I felt like I needed to have some medical reason to stay home too. But my DH kept telling me how miserable I was and that being pregnant IS a medical reason all in itself! So don't feel bad for taking off early. You want that baby to stay in for as long as possible. Even if that means you go over due. Your baby knows when she will be ready to come out. Honestly, the two weeks at home were heavenly. I slept as much as I wanted/needed to. Got more things done and prepared for Alex's arrival w/o stressing about it. I just enjoyed my time and last few days having Alex being an inside baby and all to myself. Don't feel bad at all for taking maternity leave early. And who knows, maybe your baby girl will decide she's ready even before your due date
Awesome! Can't wait to seeMy DH can't use our Canon DSLR either so I got a Canon Point n Shoot as well. Makes life easier.
Pinterest is great! I'm sure you can find some great ideas on there. Glad I could inspire
Glad you took it off before it had to be cut off. I took mine off not long after I got pregnant because my fingers kept swelling during the day. My ring indent went away so now they no longer fit. I have to get them re-sized. I've been wearing them on a necklace for the last 2 years![]()
Ahh you're making me even more excited for my last day of work!!

I really want to take classes to really get to know my camera, but at the same time, I need DH to just take an introductory course. It's ridiculous - he picks up the camera, doesn't look at one setting (and generally changes the setting I keep on most of the time to something weird on accident), takes some pictures, and puts the camera down, never realizing that EVERY darn picture he took was blurry. It's so irritating!
LOL I still need to find a necklace to put my ring on. I feel so silly being so preggo with no ring, I'm sure most ppl know why there's no ring on, but I bet some ppl wonder about my home situation LOL.
I wasn't disappointed in my Christmas gifts but I totally understand where you're coming from. On birthdays, I always buy my brother & his wife and their two kids gifts. They have two of three parties for the kids' birthdays and I'm at every single one of them plus we always go to an amusement park or boardwalk for their birthdays. So for my birthday this past October do you know what they gave me? A card with $10 in lottery tickets from all four of them. Not trying to sound like a brat but really?
I'm still waiting for flights to come out for JetBlue. I should probably just jump on the Continental airfare I found but I don't like Continental! I'd rather fly JetBlue.
Four weeks til Aria is here!But the other Aria came back Monday night.
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Aw I'm sorry to hear about your $10 lottery tix, esp after all that you do for your family! That's ridiculous. People can be so insensitive - I feel like if it was about the $$, there are DEFINITELY creative ways to show how much you care/appreciate them without spending $$.
We hate heading into Boston, so no Jet Blue for us! LOL. But we do love flying out of Providence, so I can't wait for Southwest to come out. How's the Continental airfare? I haven't seen any tickets that are decently priced around us, esp not any non-stop.
Yes I watched PLL! It was great fun as usual!
Your Christmas sounds super familiar... even though I know it isn't nice to say, I was a bit bummed that the gifts I got were not on par with those I gave. I ended up with some things I *needed*, but nothing I asked for. So I totally get what you're saying.
Hooray for a bit more time off work! And all of your baby purchases sounds very cool; she'll be here before you know it!
Aw I'm sorry to hear about your Christmas too. So frustrating, esp because we are *supposed* to just be grateful for what we did get. Well $%#@ that!! LOL.
I totally get the present thing. I was quite a bit annoyed with my MIL at DS's birthday party. Not that he needed any more toys since he got a bunch of stuff, but she got him a freaking corn popper (one of these...it's way easier than trying to describe it!), and that was all. She spent $13 on him for his first birthday! My mom knew I didn't want tons of toys, so she only bought him a couple, but she also got him lots of clothes, shoes, and books to make up for the fact that I wouldn't let her go overboard with the toys. I felt a little selfish saying that, but it just seemed like my MIL didn't put much thought into it at all. My mom used to get him tons of stuff from the Garanimals clothes at Wal-Mart for $1 or $3 a piece, so it's not really about the total she spent but that she just couldn't seem to go anywhere without finding a little something to buy for him. Didn't get that from MIL. Also, last year for his first Christmas, she didn't buy him ANYTHING. He was only 2 months old, but that didn't stop anyone else from buying him things. I'm still pretty pissed at her for that. And he is her only grandchild! I will never ever understand her.
But anyway, I'm glad you'll be taking the time off from work beforehand. Not only does it get SO much more uncomfortable towards the end, you will always feel like there is something else that needs to be done around the house before the baby arrives!! I didn't make it to 39 weeks, so I just ended up working until he was born. I had just switched my schedule at work from 12 hour shifts to 8 hour shifts, but I really didn't even get to "enjoy" them. I worked a couple of 8s, and then the week before I went into labor, we had a new neurosurgeon coming to the hospital, so they sent a bunch of us to a 2-day neuro conference to learn about taking care of his post-op pts since it wasn't anything we would be familiar with. After those 2 days, I have NO idea how people with desk jobs handle pregnancy. I was so uncomfortable just sitting there for hours on end!! If you want to do any maternity pics, definitely go for it! I did them on October 23rd and delivered on the 24th!! I would have been so disappointed to not have those pics! I wasn't due until November 10th, so it was definitely a surprise. A co-worker who does photography on the side took the pics for us, and she felt so bad when she heard I'd had him the next day because she thought it might have been induced by her getting me to stand up, sit down, stand up, sit down.He was perfectly healthy though, so I think he was just ready to come out!!
Oh geez, sorry to hear about your MIL - that's ridiculous. You'd think she'd be over the moon excited about buying baby stuff!! Both of our parents are kind of surprising us by how little they have gotten - my mom has bought her 1 outfit, and MIL has purchased 1 outfit and a swim suit. Same with the SIL's. Everyone at least seems excited but I'm surprised by how much we have purchased ourselves. I've done a TON of consignment shopping (like Fill-A-Bag of clothes for $5) which I'm really glad I did since we've received really no help from our families aside from their generous baby shower gifts.
And not getting anything for him for Christmas?? What the heck is wrong with this lady?
LOL IDK how people withOUT desk jobs work up until labor!! I sit at a desk in front of a computer all day, and am just worn out by the end of the day. Getting up to go to the bathroom is a chore! I can't imagine being on my feet all day! (Not that I particularly like being at a desk, but anyway...).
I wish I knew someone who likes to do photography - that'd be very nice on the wallet! Esp for baby photos.
Khertz ~ your MIL sounds a lot like mine and your Mom sounds a lot like mine too. We should talkSeriously though, Why do MIL's have to be so weird and crazy?? Sheesh
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No kidding. I am SO freakin' nervous about my MIL now that I'll have a baby. Did I tell you guys what she said over the holidays?? She said she was so excited that I'll be home for 12 weeks - she can't wait to meet up to go out to lunch and come over to see the baby. I currently see her an average of once every 2 months, and that is PLENTY. Always with DH. No interest whatsoever in going out to lunch with her, LOL. I didn't know what to say to that so I just sort of laughed and looked away. *awkward*

Hi there! Can I join the party!
I love baby TRs, and I traveled to Disney with my son when he was 4, 6, 10 and 18, and 24 months, so we've been around the block!
I think the name Aria is so pretty, and those 3-D ultrasounds are awesome! We didn't get one done with my DS, so I think they are just so cool to look at. How neat that you have an idea of what she looks like, before she even arrives!
Good choice with the City Select! I definitely think you should take it with you instead of the Maclaren. I know there are some on the DIS that advocate umbrella strollers, but I think Aria would be much more comfortable in the City select, and you'd appreciate the storage!
Buggy guard was an awesome purchase! We have put ours to good use on all of our Disney trips!
Oh, and if you are serious about breastfeeding, you should look into attending a La Leche league meeting. I started going before I even had DS, and I found their advice to be invaluable. It was way more informative than the breastfeeding class at the hospital!
Also, be sure to ask for the hospital lactation consultant after you give birth. The more time you are able to log with them, the better! Also be sure to get their number so you can contact them after you go home if you have trouble. I had a hard time getting DS to latch, and we ended up going back to the hospital to meet with her more than once before everything ran smoothly.
The best advice I can give you is not to get discouraged and not to give up. Keep trying, it is the very first thing that you and Aria will learn together and it might take some time. I also second Khertz's advice to pump after you feed, that way you'll be able to supplement with breastmilk if you are having latch problems, and you will keep up your supply! I would also say the sooner you start pumping the better, it is never to early to start building up a stash, especially if you are going back to work.
I breastfed DS for 14 months, so if you have any questions or need any support, we're here for you!
I'm excited to read along about your trip planning and your new baby planning!![]()
Thanks so much for coming over, and for all your advice!!
I'm glad to hear you think the city select would be a good choice - the storage alone will be worth it. I could see if we used the buses and had to fold it a ton it might be a pain, but I really don't see us doing that much. Plus, the buggyguard will help us not be as worried about it being stolen. What stroller do you have?
Your LO is so lucky to have gone so much!! I wish Aria would get that chance, but I can only push DH so much when it comes to Disney. Though, who knows, he might have such an amazing time in October that he just HAS to go back more often...I can dream right??
Thanks for the tips on BFing - I'll definitely be talking to the lactation consultant at the hospital, and I do have a number for another one at our smaller local hospital - she has weekly meetings I've been meaning to look into. I've heard good and bad things about La Leche, good in that they are great for BF'ing but bad in that they will look down on you for pumping/going back to work/daycare. IDK. And...I'll try out pumping as soon as I can LOL. Hopefully we can get that latch set pretty early on, I'm going to be optimistic about it!
I have a couple books coming today about BF'ing - one is from the LLL (but again, apparently with poor reviews for anyone planning on going back to work) and then the other is called Milk Memos which apparently is geared entirely toward moms planning on going back to work & pumping while there. January is my official BF preparedness month I think haha.