As I am older than you guys, I got caught up in the "have it all" mentality sold to us from the women's movement in the 70's.
I educated myself and sought my way up the ladder of business. I was very successful, but miserable. After Annie was born, 15 years ago, I decided I was done with the "ladder climb" but I (we) were stuck because Don had chosen what he wanted to do based on what he wanted to do and not income.
The only out I had was straight commission. If I were successful in sales, I could get out of the management track and still make enough for us to live on.
It turns out, it was the best decision of my life. I worked like crazy for the the first few years, but I have certainly reaped the benefits over the last few years.
My company has been sold 8 times now and I have never been laid off. Staples now "owns" me .... who knows what is next????
I have been invited to meet the President of Staples next Wednesday.

Should be interesting.