Walking away from inheiritance?

Well-you may have to go theru what my family is now-we have to sell the house to pay for Nursing Home care:guilty:

Dont EVER assume you know how life will end up=ever.

Its ironic that out of 7 siblings, Mom didnt drink or smoke-exercised like crazy, and SHE was the one who had a stroke that required extra care and eventually a nursing home
 
I think your first questions should go to a real estate agent. As several other people have suggested, you might be able to sell the property "as is"; that is, with the understanding that the house is in poor condition, and you're expecting a low price because of it.

The agent might also give you an idea of what it might cost to just tear the house down. I'm thinking of a house that my husband and I used to talk about -- we used to drive by it all the time when we lived in our first house. I never saw the inside, but outside it was the ugliest house ever. The right side and the left side of the roof didn't match in shape; I honestly don't know how that even happens -- it looked like two men started building on opposite sides of the roof, but they didn't talk to one another about the plan. But this house sat on a prime piece of land: Corner lot, two prosperous businesses across from it, lots of traffic. FOR YEARS that house sat and sat with its for sale sign and unkempt yard. Then one day they tore the house down, pulled up the overgrown bushes, planted plain grass. That corner lot sold in no time.
That being said, are you sure the land dosen't have any value? You can sell a property 'as-is' and disclose that the structure could be uninhabitable. Somebody still might want the land. And a lawyer or relator could take care of almost everything...just be up-front and wait for a check at the end of the process, and expect them to take a big cut for their effort.
Oddly enough, my mother and I were talking about this just the other day, and she thinks the fire department no longer burns houses. I don't know if that's true or not, but she was sure of it.

If they do burn the house, you must remove all your personal property beforehand (furniture, books, etc.). I'm not sure about appliances. Then you must dispose of the rubble afterward. You can hire companies who do that; still, to get the profit from the land, you might come out ahead.
Because the cost that would take to bring the house to code would at best allow me to break even. It is more likely I would be left with debt when it was said and done. The place is that bad. We could have the house demolished then sell the less than acre of land...again, hoping for the best to break even. This isn't money I am trying to walk AWAY from I am trying to walk away from LOSING money. Incidently, currently, this area in which the house is in has not seen home sales meet the value of the houses in several years. In other words if a house sells it sells well below the value. This house is just one phone call short of being condemned. So the value is in the land which is under and acre. This is why I wanted to know how to walk from it so I don't incur debt trying to sell it.

Just trying to get info so that when the event arises I won't be caught totally off gaurd.
Less than an acre of land? I was imagining more -- I guess the barn thing made me think acreage. Unless it's in a prime location, something well-suited to business, this really won't be worth your effort. That detail gives me a different opinion of the situation.

One more thing you ought to ask when you talk to the lawyer: Can you say "No thanks" to one part of an inheritance (the house) while accepting another portion (maybe life insurance or things you want from inside the house)? Or is it an all-or-nothing proposition?
 
What about items in the house? People tend to amass things over the years and often there are valuable old items buried in the other stuff.
 
What about items in the house? People tend to amass things over the years and often there are valuable old items buried in the other stuff.

You can always call in Mike and Frank from American Pickers! ;)
 

You can sell it as is, in Massachusetts. It can also state, the owner never lived in the property. It can state, Title V (septic if it does not have town/city sewer), buyers responsibility.

I am a real estate agent in MA. I have seen many properties listed like that.

As far as demo, we priced that out for our house that was hit by the tornado last year, we were getting quotes between $18,000 and $27,000. :lmao:

So...the property is still sitting there, unliveable, waiting for insurance to finish up. Then we got a builder to buy the property and they will take it down. They are basically paying for the land.
 
Thanks this is vauluable info. If I can sell it AS IS it seriuosly goes to the first bidder. Print up the papers I'll sign and be out of town before sunset! I figured Demo would be $$$$$


You can sell it as is, in Massachusetts. It can also state, the owner never lived in the property. It can state, Title V (septic if it does not have town/city sewer), buyers responsibility.

I am a real estate agent in MA. I have seen many properties listed like that.

As far as demo, we priced that out for our house that was hit by the tornado last year, we were getting quotes between $18,000 and $27,000. :lmao:

So...the property is still sitting there, unliveable, waiting for insurance to finish up. Then we got a builder to buy the property and they will take it down. They are basically paying for the land.
 
You can always call in Mike and Frank from American Pickers! ;)

As we were cleaning out the barn I kept say this is what we shout do! But seriously 90% of what was in the barn was full of animal feces, or was rotting and water damaged as the roof is falling in so every time it rains the contents would get wet. We salvaged what we could, had antique dealers come out and they were mainly uninterested and then had the yard sale to pay for the dumpster. It would have been way more fun watching Mike and Frank climb through it all! One Antique dealer told me to call him when it was time to clear out the house so he could "pick".
 
Well-you may have to go theru what my family is now-we have to sell the house to pay for Nursing Home care:guilty:

Dont EVER assume you know how life will end up=ever.

Its ironic that out of 7 siblings, Mom didnt drink or smoke-exercised like crazy, and SHE was the one who had a stroke that required extra care and eventually a nursing home

And it could come to that. He has MassHealth now (Medicaid) so if he goes to a nursing home, the state will require me to sell the property at his death to fund the care they paid for. Currently he does not qualify for nursing home care as he is quite able- though he chooses to let people do everything for him. I won't so he is very able to take care of life skills when I am there. He knows I am not doing the co dependent thing with him. Other family feeds into him.

Trust me, I don't assume how life will end up, I know how unpredictable it is. I am sorry to hear about your Mom. It sounds like you have had a good relationship with her.
 
I think your first questions should go to a real estate agent. As several other people have suggested, you might be able to sell the property "as is"; that is, with the understanding that the house is in poor condition, and you're expecting a low price because of it.

The agent might also give you an idea of what it might cost to just tear the house down. I'm thinking of a house that my husband and I used to talk about -- we used to drive by it all the time when we lived in our first house. I never saw the inside, but outside it was the ugliest house ever. The right side and the left side of the roof didn't match in shape; I honestly don't know how that even happens -- it looked like two men started building on opposite sides of the roof, but they didn't talk to one another about the plan. But this house sat on a prime piece of land: Corner lot, two prosperous businesses across from it, lots of traffic. FOR YEARS that house sat and sat with its for sale sign and unkempt yard. Then one day they tore the house down, pulled up the overgrown bushes, planted plain grass. That corner lot sold in no time. Oddly enough, my mother and I were talking about this just the other day, and she thinks the fire department no longer burns houses. I don't know if that's true or not, but she was sure of it.

If they do burn the house, you must remove all your personal property beforehand (furniture, books, etc.). I'm not sure about appliances. Then you must dispose of the rubble afterward. You can hire companies who do that; still, to get the profit from the land, you might come out ahead.Less than an acre of land? I was imagining more -- I guess the barn thing made me think acreage. Unless it's in a prime location, something well-suited to business, this really won't be worth your effort. That detail gives me a different opinion of the situation.

One more thing you ought to ask when you talk to the lawyer: Can you say "No thanks" to one part of an inheritance (the house) while accepting another portion (maybe life insurance or things you want from inside the house)? Or is it an all-or-nothing proposition?

I know the FD burns here in Maine, not sure in Mass and then there is disposing of the rubble. The house and barn was part of a farm back in the late 1800's later after that family moved on or passed away the property was split into home lots which now make up the street the house is on. So the house my dad is in the same one I gre up in, is just on a lot, It definitely is not more than an acre.
 
Unless they have stopped in the past year, the fire department where I live still burns houses for training.

This has been an interesting thread. I'm an only child, too, and I inherited my parents' house last summer. Even though it is a good house, it has been very stressful. I'm glad a Massachusetts real estate agent showed up on this thread to give you the real scoop.
 
Fire department also burns around here to for training.

If there are any Amish in the region, they also are more than happy to tear down houses, buildings etc, for the lumber. They basically can salvage a ton of what they tear down.
 














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