AprilsZoo
Why worry?
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The first choice would’ve been for a family/companion restroom, because it was my son taking his daughter to the restroom. He didn’t really want to have to take her into a men’s room, but she can’t go into the ladies room alone, due to sensory issues with the auto-flush.those "family" bathrooms are handicapped and I have the story which has been told here many times where family was unhappy with how long it was taking me. long story short child did not make it and they expected me to pay for new clothes for her which I did not do. so they made a great decision for her even if it did not seem like it at the time
Apparently it was kinda comical with him— a 6’2”, pretty big guy— trying to move into the back corner of the stall and hold his hand over the sensor so she wouldn’t freak if the toilet flushed.
He figures anyone in the stall next door probably thought “what the heck?” since once she was sitting on the toilet, her feet would’ve been obscured, but his big boats were in a very unusual place indeed.

We were in CA, and the reality is that Disney (esp. at DCA) has put in quite a lot of “companion restrooms” as they are labeled, because in California, it is completely legal for an opposite gender carer to accompany someone into their correct gendered restroom. So legally, he could have chosen to accompany dgd into the ladies’ room. Of course, that would generally cause a much more awkward situation. Since there seem to be more companion bathrooms at DL/DCA, than at WDW, it seems logical that it was done in order to minimize the instances of that happening.
But if you would rather have father’s bringing their little girls into the ladies’ room, I guess you have a right to that preference. To be frank, a man in the ladies room is considerably less likely to accidentally see any “private parts” than a girl in the mens room. So logically, it would be a better option. Unfortunately, logic is typically in pretty short supply anywhere people are pants-less.

I assume that’s what you were commenting about, because I am handicapped, so although some parents get irritated that I was in there alone, I have a good reason, and in the end, I’m not gonna waste time trying to explain it to them.
I’m not sure how any of that relates to the parents of another child choosing to wait the indeterminate amount of time for a companion restroom, and then blaming you for their choice. Assuming that child was not in a wheelchair that was too big to fit in a standard handicap stall, or didn’t have some other particularly unusual needs, the parent could’ve done as my son did and taken them into a regular bathroom. Sometimes it comes down to “needs must”. It makes no sense to let your kid have an accident if there are toilets you could use right next door…

Just like I’m not going to stand 3 deep in a line for a companion bathroom when my need is urgent… depending on the particular restroom, it can be a easier to spread out my supplies, but I can do it in the regular stall if necessary. It’s just trickier. But self-cathing in a public toilet is a challenge and never any fun, no matter what. Most places, where family restrooms are less common, I’ll try to choose a stall with a changing table, or one of the kiddie seats that fold down like a shelf.
Luckily, (knock wood) my neurogenic bladder has been behaving itself lately, so on this last trip, I had no big issues <woot, woot>.
If I’m remembering right, at DLR at least there are some marked as “ “Family”, while others are marked “Companion.”I think the disconnect comes because there are websites and FB groups who refer to them as “family restrooms” rather than what we know — “companion” restrooms. I think even the Mom’s Panel (or whatever the new name is) will tell people about the Companion Restrooms when asked if WDW has “family” restrooms.
No excuse for trying to rush someone or expecting compensation. But I do see why so many families head to these restrooms.
Thinking back, there may have been at least one that was labeled “Companion/Family Restroom”. They have signage which shows: 2 adult stick figures, a child stick figure, and a wheelchair.
So, it does seem they intend them to be used by families.
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