onescgirl
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OP -- you kind of make it sound as though this is the only pair of shoes your daughter owns and that you bought them with the thought that she'd wear them every single day of school. If that's the case, then I can see why you'd be so upset.
But if your daughter has another pair she can wear for a few days, why not put her in them while this gets settled, and not rush right out to buy a new pair until you've had a chance to talk to the Vice Principal. You can ask about other kids with light-up shoes, find out if the complaint is valid, etc. before you spend money on other shoes.
Seems pretty simple. Unless, as I said, your daughter has no other wearable shoes.
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I didn't mean to imply she didn't have another pair of shoes to wear. She's not shoeless by any means. Just new-shoe-less. Flip flop & sandles were worn all summer. All her tennis shoes are a size 2 from last school year & for this school year she has measured a size 3 when we bought these. She can still get in the size 2 they are just tight. So, I will have to buy a new pair of tennis shoes.
She wore a different pair today.
I think you will need to buy her new shoes.
I just got my daughter's student handbook today. They don't outright ban any specific clothing but there is a "any item of clothing that is deemed unsafe or is a distraction." clause. I guess these shoes would fit under that.
I have to think if they called you and asked you to bring a new pair in that same day then it is a problem with someone that she sees/interacts with often. Otherwise they would have sent a note home saying don't wear these anymore. And you don't/shouldn't get any info on another person's medical condition.
My daughter's school banned Silly Bandz last year so they can and will do what it takes if they find something that is disruptive and/or unsafe.
I would just go buy my DD new shoes. This is not a hill I would die on.
Our school banned Silly Bandz last year too because of distraction. Maybe they will ban these shoes for distraction, but that's not the reason the nurse told me