My old neighbors growing up - absolute lifeline for me !! My neighbor next door often had my sister & me for long stretches of time

A lady I used to babysit for as a teen - fond memories of her - she was going thru a divorce but was always available and there for me - we did a lot of activities together and she was awesome to me ! She taught me how to drive a car !!


A person from high school who sadly is no longer with us - Also helped me out and was always there for me - this person was 3 years older than me but always made time for me and checked in on me - it’s been 40 years and I still miss them daily !
I’m grateful for all the other adults that were in my life as a child who helped me out - my childhood was not good - most all family lived out of state - I had two Aunts who lived close by - one who tried to help and one who avoided the situation - sadly the one who helped died when I was 22 - the one who avoided I don’t speak to
I’ve always tried to help my kids friends if I sensed they were in a bad situation as I understand how that is - I try and not overstep their parents but gently guide the kids so they don’t make stupid choices that have life long damages - it’s has always been shocking to me how much of that is out there - very sad ! Some kids were fine some not so much - heartbreaking - you never know what will impact someone - what may not bother me may be a big deal to someone else - what I may be able to move past easily someone else will find impossible - it’s keeping them from doing destruction - I find that impossible and have a hard time sitting back and watching the train wreck - but I have to accept it’s not my job to stop the train no matter how painful that show is - it’s painful trust me !
Back on point - I’m very grateful for the adults I had in my life as a kid - I went and found most of them and I hope God blesses them daily for their help & kindness !
I appreciate all my current old friends - some I’ve had for almost 40 years ! We’ve been thru a lot - most have never lived by me - we are long distance friends but we make it work !
Happy Nrw Year to ALL my DIS Peeps!! I wish you all Health & Blessings in 2023 !!!