Yep, the drive back is the hardest for me. Our drive down to DL is about 7 - 8 1/2 hours, depending on traffic (we try to time it so we are coming in to LA at the least busy time of day -- this time we should be getting in about 10:00 pm or so). We've pulled an all night drive and hit the park first thing in the morning, but that's hard -- close to impossible with kids, even if they slept in the car, and then you run the risk of being Zombie Mom all day

But even with a long drive down, at least it's fun and exciting...the drive back, knowing you are leaving magic, and going back to the everyday grind is really hard.
I really liked flying when I went down to DL with my son last September, but there are additional costs involved that just added up too much. If we can't get a ride to the airport, we have to pay for a shuttle, then pay for a shuttle when we are down there to get to DL from the airport. A car rental for a car that will just sit in the parking lot there (we don't usually leave Disney property), is just a waste of $ for us.
Speaking of $, the roof repair guy never showed up

So now I have to call some others. At least it didn't rain yesterday.
Mom is doing okay, but not very happy. She doesn't want to live in a board and care, she keeps saying she wants to go live on her own somewhere. But it's just not possible, and the doctor -- and nurses, and physical therapist, and occupational therapist, and everyone at the stroke rehab facility -- all agree it's not safe. She can't cook anymore, she is unsteady when she walks, she needs help showering (although she's cranky about that and doesn't want help). Heck, she can't even figure out how to change the CD in her CD player, or find the TV station she wants to watch.

And unfortunately, she can't afford live in help 24x7, which is what she needs. Even someone just 4 hours a day 5 days a week would run a minimum of $1600 a month -- and then what about the other 20 hours every day, and the other 2 days a week?

I love her, and I'm trying to keep her safe and healthy -- I just wish I could make her happy, too.