Ellen-

I am so excited for you!!
Jen- thanks for keeping me in mind. Honestly, if Buddy was not so conflicted it would be easier. His Mom's wishes are in direct contrast to what he believes so this is really hard. He had to authorize the hospital to allow food and drink and was so upset that he "signed her death warrant". She may be silently aspirating and refused the barium swallow test so they would not give her even a drink of water. I had to tell him she may be aspirating on the feeding tube. He is worried that since she is suffering from dementia that she is not lucid enough to make this decision. She has since spoken to me, Bud;s older sister, the Dr, the nursing home social worker and the hospice nurse. She knows what she is saying............she wants a darn donut and a cup of coffee. Today I need to discuss her wishes in regards to Hospice. He is coming but I know he does not want the discussion. His sister..................who took such good care of her before....................told him "she does not have her mind so he should not listen to her".

So anyway, thanks for the good thoughts, we really need them right now.
Sweetie, my heart just breaks for you and Buddy. It is so hard to know what is the right thing to do. Just follow your heart and all will be ok. My prayers are with you all. Bless your heart!!!
Glynis ~ I am so excited for you to see your show. I love figure skating, so I totally understand. Have a great time.
Alison ~ Good luck on the renters. Have you heard anything yet?
PIO ~ Love the food porn. Please keep it up.
Jen ~ I am so glad you are feeling better.
Linda ~ sorry I missed your birthday. I know your day was special. Your wife takes such good care of you. Happy Belated Birthday my friend.
Merle ~ I have to agree with Glynis - my electric rice cooker is a real keeper. I just love it
Soldier ~ Way to go on the weight loss.
I had a ball yesterday. The Dr. apt. went great. We got to hear the heartbeat and I cried like a baby. It was so neat. Then I got to meet the Day care lady. Her name is Diane and a real sweetheart. I did daycare for 12 years so I knew what I was looking for as I went in. There was not ONE red flag. I really liked her and feel comfortable with her watching the baby. Then we went to Target and got the last minute things that they needed, such as: diapers, wipes, wash rags and towels, breast pads, changing table pad and cover, mattress pad - you get the gist - the things they never even thought they needed.
The shower was so much fun. It was in a restaurant back in one of their party rooms. We all ate and then Stephanie opened her gifts. From the Drs. she got an Eddie Bauer stroller and car seat. So very nice and so unexpected. She also recieved more diapers, bath things, a few outfits and gift cards. All in all she really rated.
We went back to the house and Marty put the stroller together and we put all of the baby things away. The nursery looks so cute. They have 6 weeks left but all in all they are ready.
TGIF, this has been a fun week and one I really needed but I am looking forward to the weekend. Liam is getting baptized on Sunday so the family will all be together. Even Matthew and Liz are coming home.
WFDT ~ Short ribs, baked potatoes, peach salad roasted brussel sprouts.
Make it a great day and a good weekend everyone.