I survived the in law visit and managed to spend some time with my brother and his wife too
We had planned to watch my SIL (my brother's wife) perform with her band at a local bar for Saturday. Then my MIL (eloy's mom) called to ask to come over.. uhh sure.
Wasn't sure if they would like my SIL's band (The Wax Tones), it's 60's AM radio clean fun kinda music, plus MIL gets nervous about meeting other people. But they had fun

At first MIL just sat quiet and stone like and I was thinking.. oh crap!

Loosened up after a few drinks.
For me it felt great just to be there to show our support for her band and to chat with my brother. They were totally surprised to see us.
They were the warm up band, the headliner showed up later and we stayed for that as well. Staying longer than originally planned, the band was 90's - current alternative/pop style and a fun group to watch. Before we left my MIL and BIL approached the band during their break and got autographs... the band members were like "really?? are you sure??"

It was cute and a nice memento to take home. By then my BIL was sloshed and hyper.. interesting ride home driving thru the city
They left right before noon today, short and sweet visit.. just the way we like it. Now to convince SIL and her fiancee to come visit. MIL had many things to say about SIL's choice in the man she will marry and some other not so nice comments. I got upset but didn't say a word and E too didn't say much but tried to steer the conversation elsewhere. The whole situation is crummy and sad, forcing us to take sides in an argument that we really have no clue on what is true or not.
