Nancyg56
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Mom21: I can relate also. I try to cook a nice meal at least 5 times a week and have done so since my children were little. My DH will tell everybody that he will eat anything but liver and asparagus. He will. Just not quietly...... He is a meat and potato guy, hates casseroles and stews, and really prefers that I don't "mess with his food". DD does not eat red meat. The little one lives for mashed potatoes. My SIL does not say a word, just is glad he does not have to cook.
I try to please them all, because I enjoy cooking and taking care of them, but I have found that a few days of "on your own" works better than anything. My family has been sick this last week, and I have spent a lot of time with my Mom also, so tonite when I fix dinner they will all be very happy, and they will make sure that they tell me.
I really think that when there is a family member who cooks everyday the family stops appreciating the gift. We have friends who come for dinner and tell my DH how lucky he is because there is never a real meal in their home. My family sings my praises to the world, but sometimes forgets to sing to me. I suspect the same is true for all of the dedicated cooks on this thread.
Now I have to find a recipe for country ribs. I haven't cooked them in years.
I try to please them all, because I enjoy cooking and taking care of them, but I have found that a few days of "on your own" works better than anything. My family has been sick this last week, and I have spent a lot of time with my Mom also, so tonite when I fix dinner they will all be very happy, and they will make sure that they tell me.
I really think that when there is a family member who cooks everyday the family stops appreciating the gift. We have friends who come for dinner and tell my DH how lucky he is because there is never a real meal in their home. My family sings my praises to the world, but sometimes forgets to sing to me. I suspect the same is true for all of the dedicated cooks on this thread.
Now I have to find a recipe for country ribs. I haven't cooked them in years.