ImarriedGrumpy
AKA Miss lady who isn't my mommy
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As for your DH, that's cute that he's so overprotective, but my guess is that he hasn't flown for awhile, b/c that's all anyone carries anymore. It's to the point where on my last few flights this month, there are too many large bags to fit on the plane and they also end up having to gate-check. My suggestion is to put Owen on the middle or window seat so he is safer from all the passers-by anyway, and put your own bags up there, then close the hatch so nobody else will try to put stuff above you and have to worry about Owen.
Then try to relax and enjoy your trip home! I used to spend a lot of time in MN for work, and it is much nicer there this time of year than it is here!
I didn't realize so many of you were in early childhood. I feel so out of place with my accounting degree. But I have to admit that sometimes I am totally bored with my job and wish I could do something else. But I don't really know what else I would want to do.![]()
We did get Owen his own seat - DH says it's because he doesn't want to hold Owen for the whole 5 hours, but I'm pretty sure it's because he's worried about safety. We're bringing his carseat and the Graco stroller it snaps into.
We have flown a fair amount in the last few years, and that's what has DH worried about the bags. He knows that everyone is trying to avoid checking anything, so they're all bringing enormous carry-ons that are too big and they then fight to stuff them into the overhead bins. Drives him nuts already, and then he started thinking about that with Owen coming, too. He's thinking about boarding ahead of us and getting everything settled, and then have Owen and I wait until the very last minute to get on, after everyone else has boarded. DH will be on the aisle, and we think Owen will be by the window with me in the middle, but we might put Owen in the middle. We'll see...
By the way, one of my best friends is an accountant! We often talk about how we balance each other out. Our DH's say that if we got together we could take over the world!
But I really appreciate her personality and skills that make her a good accountant. She's interested in a lot of stuff that I don't understand, and she's helped me be better at managing money. DH always does our taxes at her house so she can answer any questions he has, and we do childcare for them in exchange. Works out great for everyone!
I am freaking out about tomorrow. I am flying home with DS alone and he has a seat. I am going to bring his Britax Marathon on the plane. I thought about checking it and just having him in his seat but I think he will be too wiggly because he isn't used to it. i thought about buying the CARES harness but I think he's too little to understand it right now. I figure it will be easiest for him in his carseat since he 'knows the drill' with being in the seat.
I am mentally prepared for getting on the plane with the carryon, DS, the stroller and the carseat. I have NO IDEA how I am going to get off the plane!!! I have a bag for the carseat that has a shoulder carrier that I need to get the carseat in on the plane in order to carry it, DS and the carry on off the plane!!! I figure someone will take pity on me and help me out!! Wish me luck.
Surely someone will have mercy and help you out!
I always tried to help the people traveling with young kids when I've flown in the past. One time when I was flying out to CA from WI to see DH before we were married, I traded seats with a business traveler so I was sitting by the family with 3 small kids, and I read stories to two of the kids while the parents handled a very fussy baby. The kids drew me pictures as a thank you. It was fun to be able to help them out.
I'm having nightmares already about flying with Owen - what if he screams the whole 5 hours and annoys everyone, how are we going to get through security with 2 carry-ons, a diaper bag, a stroller, a car seat, and a baby, how are we going to get on the plane with all that stuff, how are we going to get off the plane with all that stuff, how are we going to check in with all that stuff plus suitcases, how is Owen going to respond to the messed up schedule...
We don't leave for another 3 weeks, but we're trying to get stuff planned and packed early, since there are so many opportunities to have things get messed up this trip. I'm debating mailing a box to my parent's with diapers, etc. or buying them once we get there. I'm not sure which will be easiest. And I can't decide if I should move Owen onto the new schedule or not. We have to leave for the airport at 5am, which would be 7am in MN, and Owen usually gets up about 7am here.
I'm sure I'm over analyzing everything!
This trip is so important to me because I haven't seen most of my family in almost 2 years, and DH already doesn't like going back to the midwest, so I really want him to see that travelling with Owen isn't a nightmare, and MN is not just a frozen wasteland.
He's such a CA snob, it drives me crazy sometimes. I love MN, and I miss living in the midwest, but he just doesn't understand how anyone could possibly enjoy living there. In his mind, I should be grateful that he rescued me and that I escaped and now live in the promised land of CA.
Oh well. He's so awesome in so many other ways, I guess it's only fair that he has a few flaws. 
, since we will TTC spring 09 for our 2nd. We were originally leaving for Disney on Friday Sept. 5th and staying until the 14th. After much discussion, we are now leaving Saturday August 30th!!! We are staying 3 nights at my college best-friend's house in Orlando, and then checking in to Old Key West on Tuesday Sept. 2nd!! They didn't have BWV, but we waitlisted it, since we will be checking in to a 2-bedroom at BWV that Friday the 5th (our original first day). It would be soooooo much easier to just stay at BWV rather than move from OKW.....but hey....we can do it if need be!! 12 nights in Disney!!! Oh - and how funny/pathetic is this.....originally we were going to stay a few nights at *gasp* Universal instead of going to Disney early....but it was sooooooo much cheaper to just go to Disney. Ya....you know you go to Disney too much when it's *cheaper* to go there!!
We just used our DVC points, had annual passes already, so all it would be was food (we got the dining plan...can't beat $40 a day for everything!
! Hopefully 2 weeks away with a 1 year old won't be too bad!! 


It was insane...
and it has a huge sunshade!). So, we will see. I think we will try to start some kind of "new" routine on the first day - out early in the morning, keep him out until lunch, come back in the afternoon for a long nap, and then out for dinner and play the night by-ear. If we are consistant each day, I think that will help as he will become used to the new routine. I'm keeping my fingers crossed!
), and then we'd really like to go to the San Jose History Birthday Party at the oldest building in SJ - you normally need an appointment to get in, and tomorrow it will be open to everyone for free. And tomorrow evening is DH's sister's birthday party...right in the middle of Owen's afternoon nap.