Okay this morning it is around 18-20 degrees. DS18 told me his heater in his car does not work.
My dryer want dry my clothes and don't have money to fix it right now.
I am behind in my work. BUT I HAVE WORK and that is a good thing.
We don't have the money to buy a christmas tree and the one we had broke.
It sure is a funny thing this MONEY business kind of like men You can't live with it and you can't live without it.
and the biggest thing:
DS6 who we have custody of asked me who his real dad is. When he was 4 months old his dad, my brother, was killed in a car accident. I started babysitting him while his mom worked afer that. Finally things in her life got so out of hand (men, drugs, etc) that I asked her for custody and she let me have him. She comes to see him about every 2-6 weeks. Never a set time just whenever she remembers she has a child. What gets me is he ADORES her.
Well he has been saying things lately about me not being his real mom. (He calls me mom and his real mom by her first name.) We have both explained to him that she had some things going on in her life and it was best for him to live with me and he seemed okay with that. BUT now he wants to know who his real dad it.
We did not intentionally not tell him about my brother but he started calling DH dad and we just never really knew how to deal with it so we thought when he got old enough we would sit him down and explain it. By old enough I was thinking in his teens. NOT.
He asked me on the way to school if his real moms latest man friend was his real dad since she was his real mom. SO TONIGHT we will have a talk with him. I sure hope he can understand this and deal with it okay. My heart just breaks for him because his real mom, although she loves him, she does not want the responsibility and it is already hurting him that she gave him away.
If you all have any advise on how to handle this just post away.
Well that is my update. Hope everyone has a great week.