Just a couple of responses, then I'm off to visit other threads!
Kate: First race together with DBF, all red-faced and sweaty and competitive? Now that's real commitment!
Jackie: I can SO hear your DH saying that. You've got a great sense of humor, the both of you.
Maura: I tend not to commit to anything far in advance, especially races, so I understand. I think you picked a good race, though, and super-cool about the qualifying rule. Congrats.
Vicky and Lily: ITA that races with friends make the event something to extra special. I look forward to seeing
Wendy on the course, as she always looks like she's having a good time. And maybe this year I'll get to hang with
Matt for a while.
Richard: I'm not much of a hugger in real life, but for you I'll make an exception!
Augie: I love the idea of a Brewery to Brewery ride. That sounds like fun, and I'm telling DOOD all about it. Thanks!

(Oh, and loved ToT as a night race--very different for me.)
As for me: I'm not particularly excited about any upcoming events, except marathon weekend and for obvious reasons, so it's a good thing I'm asking the rest of you. I'll just coast off your excitement. I guess if I had to pick it would be the Baltimore 1/2, just because of the travel. All the rest are local.
Regarding marathon weekend, OF COURSE I want to see you all, so the POP meet, dessert party, etc. spring to mind. But I think, race-wise, I'm most looking forward to gathering before the events in the early, early a.m. and feeling the excitement build alongside WISHers. I've missed those opportunities for the most part (Jackie and her DH's wonderful company excluded). And in a silly personal note, I'm really, really happy my ILs will not be with us this year. They've been with us the past two marathon weekends, and as much as I appreciate their spectating enthusiasm their presence I'm looking forward to more free time.
Special Shout-Out to Mel: Oh, sweetie, I'm the last person to try to talk you out of the Goofy, for two reasons. 1) I'm doing Dopey, so obviously I'm insane; and 2) misery loves company, and you're very good company to have. So my first instinct would be to tell you to go for it!
THAT SAID, I feel obligated to try and talk sense into you (do as I say, not as I do). You know a marathon comes as a great physical cost to you with your ankle. The Goofy will put more strain on it. I'm pretty sure your doctor would have a thing or two to say about your plans, might even volunteer to schedule your surgery post-Goofy then and there.
And it might help to ask yourself about the cost of doing Goofy. Not the $$$$, the other costs. Sure, there's your ankle. But you know that and you're still tempted. (I understand, I do!) But what about the cost to your other activities? How much of your dua/tri training would you have to give up, put off, or risk in training for the Goofy? And what about your family time? The thing that really makes me balk about the Goofy is the time training over the holidays. How does that work for you, between work, kids' obligations, family time, a love life?

And last, but not least, what about the cost in terms of your maximum WISH enjoyment? Would you be able to enjoy yourself on day 2 and/or all the ancillary events we're tentatively planning?
So, there you go. My best attempt to be reasonable. But just know...if you decide to go Goofy, I'm behind you--or at your side--100% of the way. I'd be proud to hang with you on the course.