Randy reappeared and he started snapping frantically:
The violinist came up, introduced himself and shook my hand. He seemed really sweet but again his name escapes me. He briefly ran down the order of the songs but to be honest I wasn't really listening, all I remembered is that I was to walk down the aisle to 'Canon in D'.
It was a beautiful day, the sun was shining and there was a warm breeze. I started to worry about my hair but my mom kept telling me it looked fine.
Tanis told us it was time for us to get into positions and she said she would take my purse so I didn’t need to carry it down the aisle. Everything was happening so fast and I wanted to take it all in. I saw Randy and Stan, and in the distance, I could see Rev Miller with Steven.
I wondered how my cake looked. The bottom layer was Chocolate cake with Peanut Butter Mousse filling and the top layer was Almond Cake with Amaretto Mousse filling. I also had fondant added with buttercream underneath. It was exactly as I hoped for:
I also hoped that my memorial flower for my dad had been remembered:
I only wanted a single yellow calla lily for him to be placed on a chair. He was a simple guy and enjoyed the simple things. He knew my favourite flowers were Calla Lillies and one day, when I was 9 yrs old, he came home and gave me a yellow Calla Lily and a bottle of Paris perfume. It is one of those treasured memories I have of him. He gave it to me for no reason, "just because" he said.
Even though my dad and I had our differences, I am sure he would have been at my wedding if he could. My father died in an accident in 2003. He was there in spirit though, I knew that.
Tanis positioned us and I could overhear her telling my mom she would give her the instruction to walk once the music started.
Randy had left and I assumed he was over with Steven:
The moment was here, I had waited literally years for this. Steven and I have been together for 9 years as of August 17th. There were times when I didn’t think this day was ever going to happen. We have been through many ups and downs, family issues, personal issues, a miscarriage, financial problems, career changes, loss of family and finally a break-up last year. We really have overcome more than most. Through it all, we have learned a lot, we have learned to accept each other, flaws and all.
We both made mistakes in the past, but we managed to find each other again. I am not one for believing that life is easy, but when you have someone to share those trials and tribulations with, it does become easier.
I love Steven, probably more than he will ever know and I was glowing that day, not because of make up, or the jewellery or even my dress. I was glowing because I was truly happy that day and nothing will ever change my perfect memory of that perfect moment…and the music began…