My ds9 is in fourth grade, however, we've had this problem since kindergarten. Sometimes I pack his lunch and sometimes he buys it, depends on the circumstances, etc. However, he consistently goes way overboard with what he buys. Sometimes he buys 3+4 drinks, 2+3 chips, etc., per meal. That's in addition to the tray! I've had a constant battle between him and the school for years. They use a pre paid card system, just swipe the card and he gets whatever he wants. If there's no money in the account, no problem--they just run a tab and bill me. Also, if money's run out, they transfer money from dd's account. Many times I've found a notice that dd's account is negative, when I just put money in there, because they use it for ds. Ok, just this year they went to a policy where we can block the kid's account for no snacks or extras. I've done that, but now he buys 2&3 trays at a time. These are on days when I pack him a lunch. Apparently he just tosses the lunch then runs through the line however many times he pleases. Also, he ducks in and buys breakfast using his account, even though he's fed breakfast at home!
I simply can't keep his account straight. You'd think the cafeteria would have better sense than to allow a kid to purchase 3+4 gatorades, 2+3 trays, all at one meal. He doesn't even have time to eat all that! i've talke to ds to no avail, seems whatever he can get away with. When he was in kindergarten it was more difficult for him to understand, but come on! At his age he gets it! Just this month he went through $60 in 1.5 weeks! For those of you who have perhaps been following some of my other threads, my dh is facing a permanent layoff and we're trying to cut our budget as much as possible. However, I can't seem to plug up this leak! I've blocked his account for the purchase of snacks and extras, but seems they still allow him to go through as many times as he pleases to buy trays. I've had other people tell me he just buys the tray to get the cookie, or whatever sweet in on it. How to keep him from bleeding us dry with his lunch account? I'm going to have a discussion with the principal, honestly, this is ridiculous. He knows how to get around the lunch thing and does. But why would any school allow a kid to buy that much at once, then just bill the parent? BTW, ds is not starving! He eats breakfast at home, and I always pack a nice lunch and snack. I mean, I pack good stuff, not just pb&J on white bread, like I see so many others bring (not knocking pb&J) I ask him what he wants and spend a lot of effort packing his lunch the way he likes it, so its not like he's throwing away my lunches because they aren't good!
Seems I just can't get around the school policy, so I'm going to have to talk with the principal. I'd like to see her spend $$$ on lunches, when she's already spent $$$ on packing one. So, for the rest of you out there, how does your school work it? If you can place a block on buying snacks, how about buying trays? They take a lunch count every morning, but they always make some extra. Perhaps I should notify the teacher every morning he brings a lunch so she doesn't let him order one? Notify the cafeteria, too? Anyone else have a similar problem? Advice appreciated!

I simply can't keep his account straight. You'd think the cafeteria would have better sense than to allow a kid to purchase 3+4 gatorades, 2+3 trays, all at one meal. He doesn't even have time to eat all that! i've talke to ds to no avail, seems whatever he can get away with. When he was in kindergarten it was more difficult for him to understand, but come on! At his age he gets it! Just this month he went through $60 in 1.5 weeks! For those of you who have perhaps been following some of my other threads, my dh is facing a permanent layoff and we're trying to cut our budget as much as possible. However, I can't seem to plug up this leak! I've blocked his account for the purchase of snacks and extras, but seems they still allow him to go through as many times as he pleases to buy trays. I've had other people tell me he just buys the tray to get the cookie, or whatever sweet in on it. How to keep him from bleeding us dry with his lunch account? I'm going to have a discussion with the principal, honestly, this is ridiculous. He knows how to get around the lunch thing and does. But why would any school allow a kid to buy that much at once, then just bill the parent? BTW, ds is not starving! He eats breakfast at home, and I always pack a nice lunch and snack. I mean, I pack good stuff, not just pb&J on white bread, like I see so many others bring (not knocking pb&J) I ask him what he wants and spend a lot of effort packing his lunch the way he likes it, so its not like he's throwing away my lunches because they aren't good!
Seems I just can't get around the school policy, so I'm going to have to talk with the principal. I'd like to see her spend $$$ on lunches, when she's already spent $$$ on packing one. So, for the rest of you out there, how does your school work it? If you can place a block on buying snacks, how about buying trays? They take a lunch count every morning, but they always make some extra. Perhaps I should notify the teacher every morning he brings a lunch so she doesn't let him order one? Notify the cafeteria, too? Anyone else have a similar problem? Advice appreciated!