Well I'm a bad news first kinda girl, so here goes...
We are cancelling our PS/Tasting to save that money for the wedding. When all is said and done it would have cost me about 1200 total...I dont know about you, but thats two more hours of a bar (not that were using it, 5 hours is PLENTY!), a confetti cannon and major domo, Lamborghini Gallardo (rental), half of a DP....you guys see where Im going dont you? So Im pretty bummed about that but also excited to save the money. I also am having bad luck with shoes..the ones I bought online just didnt match the color..the size is what I was worried about and that was fine, but the color was just OFF! So those are a no go...bummer!
This next one is bad/good news....
I have lost one person to stand next to me, one of my Matron's of Honor who is also one of my favorite cousins wont be able to come to the wedding..because SHE'S PREGNANT!!

I may be a little selfish here and there but Im smart enough to know a baby is WAAAYY more important than my day. Yes, Im disappointed she wont be there with me/for me but I'm more excited for her because its a little more important..lol! I was a MOH for her wedding a few years back and have always looked up to her so it is a little bittersweet. She's still going to do everything she would have as a MOH but she just wont be there on the actual day, and depending on when she gives birth it might mean that her mom (my...ahemfavoriteahem...aunt and uncle)wont be able to come either. Sooo I think I will add the live streaming package with STVS so they can watch it and "be there" with us!
And the Good News:
I've been shopping!!! and depending on who you ask, that could be bad news!

Here are some new developments
We got my rehearsal dinner dress! I've had my eye on it for a few months now but Mom went ahead and bought it the other day..gotta love Mom!
The rehearsal dinner is booked!

DF's parents booked it the other day at Texas de Brazil off of I-drive. We will have a private room and private meat servers (whats their job title?) from 5:30-7:30. DFs mom did that so we could have enough time for a DP if I wanted one..

very thoughtful of her! Though Im not sure we can swing it..
We went and looked at wedding rings a few weekends back. And DF fell in love with one, it was on sale so I snagged it. Its a Scott Kay Palladium, which is in the Platinum family but has a white gold price tag..its pretty heavy and when it wears it gets a little darker which Im sure is more masculine for him.
I found something for me!! Since my ring is so intricate on its own it would be hard to find a perfect match, so we are going to get something I can wear on my right hand and switch to my left when needed or desired..like vacations, etc. I will have two of these, they are connected at the bottom..the Jared website didnt have a picture of the exact one but this is as close as I can get...theyre dainty and feminine but still wedding band-y.
I bought a Newlywed bikini for our honeymoon!
DF really really really wants to rent a Lamborghini for our transportation on the day..theyre very affordable but the deposit is $2500!

Yes you get it back but coming up with it is the problem..so its a maybe at this point..Heres some pictures for fun!

I think they would make some awesome photos!!
For pre-reception decor we are doing the same thing as the table centerpieces but on a smaller scale with these, we will just put one in the center of every tallboy
I was wandering around Michaels the other day and started to think about programs..here are a few I like...please tell me which ones yall think will go best for our day!!
Option 1
Option 2
Option 3
Option 3 is my favorite so far, but I dont know!! What do you guys think?
Mom and I found a place that does silk bouquets for a great price..so we ordered them. Some of the pictures look great and some look less great. We should get them in about a week and will make up our mind as to whether or not were going to keep them or return them. We ordered white ones for my girls (who will be in black) and red for me.
Part of me thinks they look great but a little part of me is worried they look crappy...here's to hoping they look awesome when they come in. What do you think?
I would like to buy these for the tables maybe one or two per table just to add to the fun and get some cool shots too..plus they fit the theme!!
I am rethinking favors, I really like Rebecca's (SaidYes) idea of filling champagne glasses with candy wrapped in her color but I think the champagne glasses may be out of my budget..we were thinking personalized stemless wine glasses but thats a lot of shipping and alot of risk of breaking too..

so Im back to square one...ideas?
I have also been thinking about gifts for BMs lately..I bought them personalized bags and cosmetic bags, as well as a few things here and there but I was hoping to make it a beauty bag or something girly like that..I was thinking a bunch of different beauty samples would be cool but I dont know where to get them for a not so crazy price..this may or may not come to fruition..who knows! And Im clueless on FG gifts..just clueless!
Im pretty sure thats all the new developments as of now...whew its a bunch!
My To-Do List is still pretty out of control...
Print Invitations
Favors?
Buy Cinderella Cameras (if we do them)
Make Reservations
Create Schedule of Activities
Create Newsletters..NOW!
Find BM dresses and FG dresses
Find shoes
Sign up for dance lessons
Sign up for premarital counseling
FG/BM gifts
Figure out ceremony songs--still thinking about a few; I'll upload our music list as we have it so far here soon
Narrow down choices for cake and menu
SO NOW YOUR JOB IS THIS: Tell me which programs you like best, your HONEST opinion on the silk bouquets, and if you have any ideas for favors? 