Oh! I think you want this list! Sample menus are usually tucked away in there somewhere, and yelp or chowhound should have good information on them all, or google has zagat scores.
http://www.opentable.com/info/banquets.aspx?m=4#state{MetroAreadID:4|MacroID:5|NeighborhoodList:8285,9110,32,34,36,35,227,49,916,1382,38,2951,4235,40,41,780,42,3287,674,44,641,45,640,3029|PriceList:2|CapacityList:21|RequestedRegions:5}
And yeah, November isn't cold so much as that it starts to be in the rainy season, and no one wants their wedding to be rained out.
You might also consider Gordon Biersch. It's kind of a fun, party atmosphere, they do it all the time for groups, they have good logistics and the food is pretty decent, even for 50 people all at once.
Good luck!