I have no idea how we would respond if we had been in your situation. Last May our county had been hit with an "inland hurricane" (Derecho) that was devastating to our community. We lost a third of our roof plus eight windows imploded out of our house, not to mention the challenges of water-damage, furnishing sucked out of the house, etc. Fortunately for us our DVC is paid for (other than the MFs). In spite of that we considered whether to sell or not just to generate some funds to assist in paying for repairs and reconstruction since FEMA was not very helpful and the insurance company was turning into a royal pain. We choose not to sell. Instead we managed to get our home secured and decided it was time to escape to WDW/DVC. We were so glad we did. It was great therapy to deal with the initial shock. We were refreshed when we returned and better able to stand up to the insurance company, contractors, etc. in getting our house repaired. Best of luck in dealing with the daily traumas of life.