Pea-n-Me
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Thank you, bobbi, your words mean a lot. We have the posters, too. I started seeing them at a different hospital when my FIL was there years ago. I think they’re helpful, and they’ll mean something to the rule followers among us. (Isn’t that always the way!)@Pea-n-Me , in all medical offices I been in recently, and it’s been a lot, I see a poster something like this one:
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and I never ever imagined that people would not respect those who work in those hospitals, offices. I am so sorry you and your DS have experienced so many bad things. Now when I see the posters, I will try to remember to say a prayer for all the wonderful people who work in health care.
I’ll tell you about a good friend of mine. When I met her she was just starting nursing school, in her 40s. She studied for years, all the way up to a master’s degree in nursing and was working in a hospital, all was good. Until she went in one day when they were short staffed. She was helping an elderly patient when he attacked her, out of the blue. She went out, and actually woke up in the ER after being resuscitated. She suffered from PTSD and never went back to work as a nurse after that.

It gets disheartening. Nurses also don’t always report these incidents as they should, either, so statistics are worse than they appear. (Just last week I asked someone I work with who was hit whether she reported it and she said she didn’t, because the patient smiled afterward, like she was ‘kidding‘.) When DD was still working as an aide she was kicked in the stomach by a patient who was a physician! Staff pulled her out of there and the next day the director called her to see if she was ok, etc. I’ve seen nurses who are pregnant have the same thing happen - in like, feet aiming for the belly!
This is how it was for DS when he was kicked in the head, too - the patient aimed for his head, and connected.
