WL - Pros - Good theming, good pool, good dining options, great price. Cons - ok transportation, but no monorail or walking distance to park, smaller rooms, but cheaper and we are used to Mods.
Thanks for the help!
Hi "Boscov" (as in the "store" ?) "Reading Area" here....
First off - you (and I) are apparently part of a "minority group" here... we are "males", but are doing the planning... usually it's "the husbands" that just end up telling the ladies, "whatever", as they try to plan things out... and then complain about everything after the fact, after the wives have pulled their hair out trying to guess what their husbands are going to want....
Anyway... we've stayed at all three Resorts, and I must tell you... although my favorite is The Contemporary Resort, of the three listed, my first choice would be The Beach Club (my wife' favorite, and my second favorite). Although I've stayed at The Poly, it's never appealed to me.... And with all that being said, after evaluating your specific situation, I would have to recommend "The Wilderness Lodge" for you, even though it would be The Beach Club, for me. Yes, there is something to be said for not being on the Monorail... and there is something to be said for the "out-of-the-way" location... and the restaurant options also... but with all that being said... you are a "boat ride" away from The Magic Kingdom, the bus service from WL to everywhere else is quite good, the atmosphere and pool are super, and the prices just can't be beat.
You will have "pros and cons" with every choice, and I agree with your evaluation of The Poly. The Beach Club, with it's atmosphere and pool are, without a doubt, fantastic and family-oriented... and the location (in proximity to DHS and EPCOT) can't be beat - just a short walk or a "boat ride" with great bus transportation to everywhere else. Dining - counter service is tough, but there are so many dining options so very close by (EPCOT, DHS, Boardwalk, Swan & Dolphin)....
Bottom-line... The Contemporary Resort - Wing Unit (didn't see that one coming, did ya !). followed by Bay Lake Towers (villa) [an often overlooked option for families that's certainly worth checking into], The Wilderness Lodge, The Beach Club, and The Poly, in one-two-and-three order for your choices....
Be sure to check your pricing, for any potential discounts, for any packages, (does "Boscov's Travel" still do WDW trips outta' LVIA ?) and air fare options (if you are flying). And also, be sure and consider where you will be spending most of your time (sounds like it will probably be MK, but think it through) - as well as if you will need to be doing mid-day (afternoon) naps, or non-park days, or evening plans... and just how much your children can tolerate in one day will mean a lot, and may ultimately aid in your final decision.... Good Luck & Happy Planning !