Stitchfans, it's hard to see our kids growing up, isn't it? And harder when we don't like their decision in spouses.

That I haven't put much thought into yet and I'm just assuming that my kids will pick people I approve of, but who am I fooling?
My DH is being so nasty today. The little snide comments that I call him on and he acts like he meant nothing by them. One comment wouldn't be a big deal, but comment after comment is getting very annoying. IE, we're trying to finally get a detailed guest list for Zach's Bar Mitzvah. We have Ben's list, and we took people off who we're no longer close to, his friends, etc and have added Zach's friends, people we're now close to, etc. But there are people to decide about. At the minimum there will be 20 more people, which wouldn't be a big deal, but the party is at our house (about 10 more kids and 10 more adults). So instead of the 60 people for Ben's it looks more like 80 people, and that's not inviting some people who we could invite.
Anyway, we were discussing neighbor families (we have 2 families, plus Zach has a lot of neighbor kids) and my DH's comment was that "we don't have
anything to do with
any other neighbors!". But said in a very snobby way. Not that we don't know the other neighbors. Which is true for him and we don't really socialize with them, but I see them at the bus stop, chat with them when I'm out, etc, etc. But he's never out! He didn't mean it in a snobby way, but it sounded so snobby. And like I said if that was the only comment today it wouldn't have bugged me, but it's been one comment after another all day long.