Chatty,
Just remember, if you don't wont to get dressed up or be waited on there is the buffet. If you do, there's the dinners. My first Disney (2nd cruise overall) in March, the wait staff isn't pushy. (My first cruise they were). They reminded me of the staff in the restaurants in WDW. Don't want to sign up for excursions. Don't. You can always go it alone. I did a few times on my first cruise, just hired a cab and said give us the tour. I used the at sea days to catch my breath and enjoy the classes on board while my friends hung around the pool. Just relax and have fun. You could very well become addicted.
Just remember, if you don't wont to get dressed up or be waited on there is the buffet. If you do, there's the dinners. My first Disney (2nd cruise overall) in March, the wait staff isn't pushy. (My first cruise they were). They reminded me of the staff in the restaurants in WDW. Don't want to sign up for excursions. Don't. You can always go it alone. I did a few times on my first cruise, just hired a cab and said give us the tour. I used the at sea days to catch my breath and enjoy the classes on board while my friends hung around the pool. Just relax and have fun. You could very well become addicted.