Okay I have to give every on here a guy's opinion here. Yes I am sure that I will be totally trashed, but this is okay.
My thought on Pantyhose.. 85 percent of the women cannot pull off the bare leg look, especially in a formal, semi-formal, and professional settings. Those 15 percent that can, GREAT! Go for it! The rest of you, well put some good quality hosiery on, do not go and get the No-Nonsense brand from Wal-Mart, rather go and put a bit of effort into finding the right ones for you, no matter your size. The higher quality hosiery, such as Fogal, Pretty Polly, and other offer a wide selection of choices that will meet nearly ever woman's needs.
Another thing about the bare leg look, it makes women look like they are too dang lazy to get properly dressed for an event. Summer time, causal, relaxing, running to the store, bare legs is fine, but when you are around others who are well dressed, you have to stop and think outside of the box and stop thinking about yourself so much. Ask yourself, would your boss be proud to have you stand in front of a crowd accepting an award dressed as you are? Would you give the impression by how you look that you do not care what others think? My wife is VERY careful in ensuring that she represents her company very well, which means she wear the right type of hosiery for the right type of event. My business, there is no dress code, however, women there voluntarily wear hosiery because they know that they look more professional for the clients.
The part about hose being uncomfortable, well then you have picked out the wrong brand and probably size for you.
Again, take your time and with a little bit more effort, you will be shocked on the positive reactions you get from others.