Ok...I need your opinion

[siandamgirl]

I didn't say anything when you kept posting threads with names that sound like Cabbage Patch Dolls, but this is too much.

And how on earth do you have time to regale us with all these tales of your ever-growing brood when you're pregnant and you have 4 kids under age 5?

Yeah, riiiiiight.

You better run along now. You're going to be late for cheerleading practice. [/QUOTE]


Hey lady! You need to stop it with saying nasty things about my kids & my life! You better run along now....I think you are the one that needs to stop posting on this thread and get a life! I will name my kids anything I like and if you don't like it TOO BAD!

 

[corie161]

OK. All of you need to STOP your nagging! I am 34 NOT 15! My husband has a 15yo daughter and 2sons! I ALSO have a 15yo step daughter through my ex husband as well as a step son~ I met my husband through my husband daughter and my ex husbands daughter. So Before you know all the facts don't say something snotty! I love my Family Equally and I wouldn't Change A THING! I can list my kids in any order I want. Can't anyone ask a question without rude remarks?????

To be fair, generally posters don't like to be scammed and things just didn't seem to add up with your post. Not that they may not have been true, but when things are left out of the initial post, conclusions are made. Unfortunately they may need more of an explanation. It's hard to give advice on a situation without knowing all the facts. You can't just tell someone, sure go ahead and adopt and invite your DSD to live with you. That could possibly be giving bad advice.

Now, what doesn't make sense to me and other's have posted this, is why the 2 people on one screen name? That tends to add to the confusion. Why not just make a new account?

 

[DVCLiz]

I'll let you look it up on urban dictionary .com to see if they have a listing for it. I'm scared to death of that site, not to get snarky or anything!

Nope, not a mention - it's a brand new word and ladies and gentlemen, you were there!!!!

Siandam, I am glad you made your decision. What kind of work do you do?

 

[dis ms.]

I am 34 NOT 15! My husband has a 15yo daughter and 2sons! I ALSO have a 15yo step daughter through my ex husband as well as a step son~ I met my husband through my husband daughter and my ex husbands daughter.

Well, now that you've cleared that up...

FTR, I did not (and would not) say a disparaging thing about your children. I was referring to the threads you have started listing potential names for the twins you are apparently expecting. Sorry, but those name combinations you posted reminded me of Cabbage Patch Doll names.

It's interesting that every time you post you seem to add another child (or two, or five) to your family. I don't get that. I tend to mention both of my children up front. Then again, I only have two, not...let's see...how many are you up to now? By my count it's 9, with 2 more on the way.

Okay, whatever.

 

[Poohnatic]

I'll let you look it up on urban dictionary .com to see if they have a listing for it. I'm scared to death of that site, not to get snarky or anything!

As long as you don't get snarky in a #10 kinda way.

Gotta say, the trolldar (great word, Liz!) was going WHOOP! WHOOP! WHOOP! As I read the names and ages...man, could you even imagine going to the six week checkup THREE YEARS IN A ROW and getting a positive pregnancy test?

Suzanne

 

[Tigger&Belle]

As long as you don't get snarky in a #10 kinda way.

Gotta say, the trolldar (great word, Liz!) was going WHOOP! WHOOP! WHOOP! As I read the names and ages...man, could you even imagine going to the six week checkup THREE YEARS IN A ROW and getting a positive pregnancy test?

Suzanne

I don't know, my neice is pregnant with #9 and their oldest (her 8th pregnancy, the oldest is her DH's) just turned 13yo. I don't even know if I could list all the ages, but something like 13, 12, 11, 9, 7, 6, 3, 1 1/2 --not sure when the baby is due. Makes me tired just thinking about it.

 

[Caradana]

I lost track. I think I had something like four marriages, eight years of school, nine kids, three locations, three job offers, two internet identities ... it all started to swirl around in my head

 

[dis ms.]

I lost track. I think I had something like four marriages, eight years of school, nine kids, three locations, three job offers, two internet identities ...

...and a partridge in a pear tree.

 

[FreshTressa]

Okay...if she has an 8 month old and put in for an adoption a year ago, does that mean she put in for an adoption while she was PG and had 3 kids under 5 already?

This makes no sense!

If it is true...great, I'm glad you love kids, but it does sound like some very strange decision making.

 

[Beth76]

OK. All of you need to STOP your nagging! I am 34 NOT 15!

Oh please. If you really are 34 then get your own screen name. It also helps to have your story straight and know how many kids you have. Unless you have so many you lost count. Sorry if you're legit. You brought it on yourself.

 

[mrsgus06]

I would put the Sweden adoption on hold. How could I possibly handle four new additions to my family at the same time?

I have to agree with this! In Oct of 01, my stepdaughters biological mother passed away during the birth of her third child, that's right, during child birth! We (hubby and I) brought his two daughters home to our house, but we also brought the baby home with us as her biological father walked when he found out he was going to be a daddy! Over night I went from having my 2 biological, then 15 and 6, to having 5 full time. They were 4 days, 2, 4, 6 and 15 then. I quit my job of 15 years at the local hospital and became a full time SAHM. It was hard having 3 come in at one time and only 1 was a newborn! I also have a stepson from hubby's first marriage and he still comes over every other weekend and during the summer. That made 5 of them under the age of 6. Now the oldest is almost 20 and the youngest is now 4 and, at times, it is still very hard. Yes, we can afford a nanny, but I won't hire one. I am the type of person that would clean before the maid got here. I have to do everything myself. As for my stepson wanting to come live with us, I would say, in a heartbeat, yes, but it can not be because he is fighting with a sibling at his house or his mom or step dad. It has to be because this is something he is wanting to try. My soon to be 20 year old has told me that he appreciates the fact that I never asked him to watch the younger ones when he lived with us. His best friend could never go out to do anything because he was always watching his two younger brothers.

If your family dynamics are correct, and you do have that many kids and want more, I say my hat is off to you. You are a better man than me!

 

[DisneyMommyMichelle]

wow..that's it, just WOW....interesting

 

[grlpwrd]

Wasn't there a poster who asked for the answers to some homework problems (on this board or the family board?) and then slithered away when members felt a weird vibe that it was actually the daughter/student asking for answers?

Yes, it could be that this poster is 34 with many kids and her story could be legit, but some things give it away (ie grammar, many inconsistencies, and quick temper - though many older folks can be like this, too ) and it does look like we could be dealing with the stepdaughter herself or who knows. At least make your stories believable and keep track of them. lol

dis ms, .

The DISboard is so entertaining!

 

[In a hurry]

Interesting. I like the trolldar! 34 years old, 8 years of school, 4 years of residency, and as someone stated horrific vocabulary. (were/was, excepted/accepted) It sounds like the fairy tale land of a teenager. "I am going to have 6 kids, and adopt one for Sweden! There names will be....And I'll have a stepdaughter that I want to come live with us (sadly perhaps wishful thinking.) We might get a nanny, we have a nanny."

OP, I hope you get things straighteded out. As some have said, perhaps just getting your own name will stip the interposting confusion.

 

[poohandwendy]

Ok, we have established that your current Dhs DD is coming to live with you, right? And that you are considering 3 job offers from SF, after the twins are born.

Then, you say this:

By the way, we know have a lovely 15yo living with us soon! This username is another one of my DsD's not the one that will be living with us & she is on Spring break, so no one is getting hurt!

ok, so then you say this (explaining whose screenname this is):

My husband has a 15yo daughter and 2sons! I ALSO have a 15yo step daughter through my ex husband as well as a step son~ I

If that is so, then why does this username profile state this?:

Biography:
Share this username w/my stepmom!
Location:
GA--Soon to be San Fran!
Interests:
Watching Gilmore Girls,Cheerleading, hangin w/ my friends!!
Occupation:
Student!
Gender:
F

Are you trying to tell us that your exDH's daughter is moving to SF and you just happen to be also looking at 3 offers for jobs in San Francisco?

And why on earth would you be sharing a screenname with your exDhs dd?

Perhaps you haven't created your own account, like you said you were going to the other day, because you also share the same computer with your exDHs daughter?

 

[left210]

So I take it she is not going to respond which is a big red flag that she was not on the up and up. Maybe it was the teenage daughter just practices her drama.

 

[DisneyMommyMichelle]

too bad i was hoping to hear more