SwedishMeatball
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It's all still new to us. Like I said, he never called his son before about a month ago. He was calling every other night, so she wasn't expecting his call.
But that's a good idea. If she's not at home or I'm with him, he could just call my cell.
I still like the idea of calling at bedtime.
Yes, because it should be what is about convenient for you. It sounds like life was so much easier when he was just being neglectful towards his son and not intruding on your time. I can understand wanting to try and arrange something that is respectful of everyone's schedules, but I think you're coming off like the father is nothing but a PITA.
Also, stop and consider how you would feel if your wife and you ever divorce. How often would you want to call you sons?? Would it be acceptable to want to find out how their day went at school?? I'll bet you'd miss all those bedtime stories and hugs goodnight. You might try and say the situations aren't the same because this man has not made a consistent effort to maintain communication, but I suggest looking forward and not back.