Kath2003
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Who said I wasn't listening to that advice? This is what I don't understand. I don't know exactly what is gonna happen. My wife has to talk to the father and they have to work it out.
At this point, I'm only trying (stupidly) to defend myself.
Because you're on the defensive, constantly. You don't need to defend yourself. You need to take both the advice and a slice of humble pie, thank those who took the time out of their day to help you solve this problem and go and try these solutions. You don't need to start telling us that the ex won't pay for a cell phone etc., you need to go start solving the problem.
You may not be trying to come off as rude but if you're constantly sniping back on the defensive every time anyone suggests their opinion (which they are entitled to and you may not agree with), it makes everyone else snappy and defensive too, and then we get into a big vicious circle.
(Which is why I suspect you and the ex don't see eye-to-eye on many things, in that I suspect he's probably exactly the same...and that's my opinion, I AM telepathic TYVM and you don't have to agree with me one iota.)