Mawnna
I read your post this morning and I can not believe one of the sistahs has not replied yet. I see you have not posted much and would like to welcome you to WISH. This is a wonderful place for weight loss support. I have not been active on this thread for a while but I think it is time to rejoin and get committed. I am 12 pounds down and I still have 158 pounds to go. It seems like an impossible task so I am focusing on 10 pounds at a time. I have been working on this same 10 pounds for a long time but I am doing better now. I can do this.
I hope things work out for your Thanksgiving trip and I know with commitment and hard work you can lose some weight by then. I always look into the future and imagine how wonderful it would be to weigh less. Then I slack off, eat junk, and do not exercise. Guess where that gets me, nowhere. I have been going nowhere for a long time now and I am sick and tired of it.
DH found this crazy diet on the internet and we are doing it together. I went to a function at church tonight with desserts for refreshments. I did not have one bite. NOT ONE BITE! It all looked good, I am still salivating thinking about the spread of goodies. But I did not eat anything. That is a miracle. I am very proud of myself. I will have my peanuts and ham slices instead. Yes it is a crazy diet.
So Mawnna first of all what is your real name and what does that screen name mean? Next I am wondering what is your game plan. To be successful at losing weight it is important to have a plan, just saying 'I am going to eat healthy' does not cut it because that is not very specific. You know what will work for you.
Take baby steps, don't try to do everything at once. That can get overwhelming and when you fail it is frustrating. I started with 5 things I think are important for me to develop as habits for a healthy lifestyle. They are:
1 drink 8 cups of water every day
2 eat 5 fruits and vegetables every day
3 exercise 30 minutes every day
4 do not eat after 8 PM
5 follow my WOE (way of eating)
I worked on one item a day and when I mastered it I added another. It helps me to write down everything I eat and keep a checklist of how I do with my 5 goals everyday. It makes me think twice before I eat junk because I know it will be written in my food journal. It also feels wonderful to check off my five items each day as they are completed.
In theory this will work when I do it, but I have not been doing it faithfully lately. This may not work for you but it is just a suggestion. You need to make a plan that will work for you. Remember this is not a diet, this is a lifestyle change. We need to develop healthy habits and change the relationship we have with food. When I look at all the years of my life I have wasted being miserable about my weight it brings tears to my eyes.
So let's get going on our weight loss journey Mawnna. With baby steps and victories each day we can change our lives and become the healthy women we want to be.
I hope you check back in soon. There are many people here to help and support you.
Have a healthy day!