
I just wanted to sat Thank You to all who took the time to answer my question so thoughtfully and honestly. I see how the thread got out of hand and that is just too bad. My husband and I both valued and discussed all points of view. I won't get into the whole "asking permission" replies because that was never a issue and I am not sure how it got to that but, again I just wanted to say thanks and we are still discussing our options!

Maureen