My family and I were just in a really bad accident. **Update on p.12

[PamOKW]

God was watching out for you today. By your description it's a miracle you were all able to not only walk away but had no major injuries either. I was pretty shook up when a car pulled in front of me -- I can't even imagine what you went through. Take it easy -- you'll all probably be very sore tomorrow. You may even see bruising on your chests -- this is from the seat belt. Just all give each other an extra hug tonight. And take the rest a day at a time.

Just saw your post about your husband -- you're right that he should at least check-in with his therapist. Your daughter may settle down once you and your husband do also. If not, counseling is a great idea. I would stress how lucky you all are -- and not dwell on what almost happened.

 

[AuntRoeRoe]

 

[Tigger&Belle]

I'm not an expert, by any means, but it sounds as if your DD's reaction is very normal. She was aware of what was going on during the accident and is old enough to understand that there could have been a very different outcome. Give her time to work through this--she's gone through a very traumatic experience. Well, you all have and it will take a while before you are feeling ok.

Sorry about your DH having an extra tough time!

T&B

 

[kerry34]

My prayers to your whole family as well as the truck driver and his family. You did a great job keeping your family and yourself from getting seriously injured. I will say extra prayers for your daughter and husband to get through such an emotional struggle. Getting help right away like you are doing will help out alot. God Bless all of you!!

 

[DemonLlama]

I'm so glad you and your family walked away. I know after being in just a "near miss" driving my car (which I escaped by a hair but there was a fatality involved ) I had to take some time before I could get out on the highway again. I was too traumatized to drive safely at first. Please take all the time you need to work through the shock and "what-ifs" that you will feel.

 

[Boston Tea Party]

Oh, I have CHILLS! Thank GOD you are all OK! You are in my prayers.

May I make a suggestion? Please forgive me if it has already been mentioned. I didn't read all of the replies. I would take my kids to the doctor Monday, and myself as well. Emergency rooms are so pressed for time that I wouldn't trust them to do a thorough check up.

 

[Pea-n-Me]

Prayers for all of you. It's an amazing story and really does remind us all of how fragile life can be and how important it is to wear seat belts and use car seats.

I just feel so guilty that I was driving and I couldn't avoid what did happen.

You have nothing to feel guilty about, it wasn't your fault and your family is alive and well because of your actions. I'm sure it wouldn't be a bad idea for a few visits with a good family therapist. Post traumatic stress can occur in situations like these. Best wishes.

P.S. As longterm Jeep owners, I'm glad to hear your Jeep vehicle protected you so well in the accident.

 

[dis4me]

Thank God you are all OK. Please don't feel guilty YOU SAVED YOUR FAMILY. Please get your daughter in counseling right away. Art therapy is a good start. I wish you all the best.

 

[Aimeedyan]

Oh, I am so sorry... it's so hard for a child to understand what happened, my prayers will be with your daughter especially.

I hope things work out and that you are all feeling okay in a few days. Keep us posted.

 

[Nite0wl71]

Prayers and hugs to you and your family

 

[FroggyinArk]

god bless you. you and yours will definately be in our prayers. Seat belts do save lifes and thank god you guys are alive.

 

[luvthatduke]

Praising God and saying prayers for all.

 

[Rajah]

Wow. What an amazing story! My prayers go out to all of you, and it's such a blessing that you're all relatively okay. I pray you all will recover emotionally from this, as well.

 

[jenimay]

Wow, I'm sorry your family had to go through this. Although, you have nothing to be guilty of! You did the best you could under the circumstances. You will all make it through this!
Jeni

 

[halestrm]

My thoughts and hugs for your daughter. Take car with her. My daughter was terrified to get in the car after our accident. It took about a week, but by that time, she had a full case of "I will die in a car". Although she was only 4, she was sure she was dying. She started to give things to people to remember her by. At that point, no one in her life had died.

Please, know what you did saved lives. You couldn't have done any more unless you kept your family locked up at home in a bubble. You are an amazing woman. Allow yourself a chance to be weak with friends, since you will insist on being strong for DH and DD and DS if he has bad dreams from this. Your DS may pick up on the vibe of fear in the house, so you may want to watch him.

Feel free to PM or email if you need to vent.

 

[SherryNC]

Prayers for all involved.

 

[Disney-Kim]

[/COLOR]Desnik...I am so happy that your family is all ok.
we were in accident about 5 weeks ago and although it was not quite as bad as yours...it was TERRIFYING. I understand your dazed/confused/scared feelings. I had them too. My car didn't get that badly damaged but it has been 5 weeks waiting on it to be fixed.
I am just now feeling confident driving again (I was driving too). So please know that that feeling of never wanting to drive again will pass. The nervousness will pass.
Thank God none of you were hurt !!! We weren't either although it was a bad accident. [/color]

 

[Blueeyes101817]

so glad you guys are okay!

 

[Mysteria]

OMG!! I'm so sorry this happened to you and your family and so glad you are all ok. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Myst

 

[rascalmom]

I'm so glad that everyone is okay - I hope your dd is feeling more secure soon. Prayers to all.