My vote is for MVMCP. Took my boys; 45, 18, 16 & 13 last year and they had such a great time we are going again this year. The decorations, the shows, the parade, free family picture, hot chocolate and cookies really put you in the holiday spirit. You and your daughter will LOVE IT.
May i suggest reservations at Cinderellas castle for diner that nite to make it that much more special for your daughter, The party officially starts at 7:00pm but last year you were allowed in for the party as early as 4:00pm (they give you a wrist ban) and you are allowed to make dinner reservations i believe for 4pm & on. The general public is escorted out at 6:00pm. We had diner at Liberty Tree Tavern at 5:30 and plan on doing that again this year.
Have a great time