..how the moovers' doing? {think friends, by joey}
..saw something..very
..today..in the court room [ waiting
to get paid] ...some guy pleading guilty / plea deal..to assault.
..then they let....his victim [ wife? ex?] speaked. .....she begun...
saying..., she knew..him..for 21 years....she wanted them to throw the
book at him. she had no love left. he sat quietly. but iam well familar
..with this manipulation. she drilled him, and hearing all her anger,
fear, and frustrations....cut right thru...the terrible abuse over he
years...she left..in a huff..and as fast as she could...before him.
now..if i was the judge?..i wouldn't let..that slipped by. he should been
held responsible...& made conditional....thereforth! should have been
documented..and spelled out..any type/future contacts....& the law
should enforce severe penalties! [ by telling him, this was going to
be noted on his record..then it would act..as a limit setting. lil'things
like this..could/would saved lives.
how do so many "grow" up..without ever learning @ least one, value of love?
none! "control" isn't a reflection of...love, rather selfishness..& lacking
maturity....but these aren't 2 years olds. and when are our societies...
start valuing ..our children? regardless, of her lack of family values, once
she became adult, + child..she is responsible....& her choices..took a life..,
away. the only feelings..i have..is for that precious lil'girl, that this
fate...should have never happened.
..that lil'orlando girl...seeing...her dysfunctional parents.
and her attitude toward attention seeking,.....
& depressing
conclusion....had long been evident.
we were "designed"...with a system~ depending on our families for support,
and our parents...for learning & protection. maybe we need to re~think
our primary education systems.
now, we are confronted..with adults..that have failed....in ways, that did
more than endangered..they caused death..& thus, the penality of
losing any future options...to be a parent..or alonme..with any children...
should be society response? yes, this story made me heart~sick.
wow..when you think...you've seen enough...women selling their eggs,
for $$$, same as..prostitution, to me. of course, this came from my
parents'. but how can you forget a part of your body...that produces
a new life? you don't. nor could i, ever.....
mental health..has very lilttle to do with mental illness..rather, mental
well being. why, oh..why..do we missed~messed up...what is common
sense? i was watching..my wife's doggie's shows.,
..they are
paying more attention..to their behaviors...& it's meanings..then we do
..in our schools systems.
while..the child lost..in the orlando case..is very sad...& disturbing...
...why ain't the media...keeping track...where those 2 lil'girls were
shot?
fyi,
when..i catch patients making a fist.., i fist recognize..& redirect.."why
are you doing that?..where i come from ..the only reason...for making
a fist..is to hit?.....that's illegal?....others, "why do you want to hurt
those trying to help you?" . you be surprise..how effective..lil'
things work.
ps. whenever..someone making alot noise @ you..watch their hands.
the most dangerous risk..to your well being, are from others. there's
something..to be gain..by paying attention. from listening to the news,
...there's seem to be a patterns. alot of hiding..behind "mental illness",
for cover..so they can inflict harm. then there's the problems with
our "protection system"..laws/& legal sytem. justice ?
recognizing those gaps..is why...i am carrying..with me a different
type of protection order...of self defense.
...then there's the values..of understanding real "reality". all behaviors
have meanings...so when i see a pattern of dangerous behaviors....
..i don't need a crystal ball..top predict the future. fyi, jus so it wasn't
missed....someone..was in a court room 2 months..before colunbine....
trying to point out..these behaviors..and the importance...of taking
corrective measures.
to really..stop & prevent...so many of these ongoing tradegies,
society....must start valuing...it's mental health needs. we need to
extend..what is.....old~fashioned..& families values..into our educational
system..as developmental needs..instead of..errorenous..calling
them a religion..& out{lawing} them.
what i saw today..is a good example of failure. but it isn't one person..judge,
lawyers, clients.victims..so forth fault....lack of knolwdge..of a lack of
knowledge..ain't innocence..but a guilty..verdit waiting to inflict
damages..on...every community.
& there's..so much ..we can teach..when someone..becomes...dangerous.
..we need a community reporting system...to verfied & determined accuracy
versus manipulation [spite]. .....& other matters. * if someone ever start
shooting in your direction..turn sideways...reduces your target...liked
300%. [ iam still amazed.../astonished..how many the v. tech.'s kid
killed..with handgun... [ he had to been practicing..because it isn't that
easy].
one may be a victim..but does mean..there isn't options...i will not let
anyone..take my life..."for fun"..or any reason. in any situation..everything
can be used..for protection. me & my friend..are supicious..that with
all the activties...with this..guy, are risks for drug deals & the like. we
already..documented..his behaviors..especially those..attempting to
do us harm. if he ever gets his drugs friends..to ambush..either one of
us..he/they..be shocked. oh, obtained..all reports..even theirs...they
are insightful..telling you alot about the person. * even lies..can
be quite revealing. [ it's what i used..to tell the game warden what
we could expect..& sure enough...almost to the letter !]
....if the solutions/corective measures..for reducing dangerous behaviors
are possible..thru a lilttle change/s..why not?
oh, plez..be safe..and pay attention..jus in case.....a new neighbor ..
moves..nearby..with ..problems,
Yes, there has been such a flurry of PM's since trying to straighten out my DIS life vs. the FB life. 
Oh, and sorry about your laptop. 
My DD got one for Christmas. Although, she had to leave Santa quite a bit of money along with his cookies because we had to explain that Santa couldn't afford all of it. She has been saving her money all year for a laptop, but never had quite enough, so we kicked in the rest, and DH got a deal at 
She is driving my DH crazy with all her computer support. 
Hope your laptop hangs on long enough for you to get some sort of replacement.
I'd be making a fist too if I were you. 
