Well I got some good news tonight. First let me tell you the before part:
When I had booked way back last January I had booked an extra cabin. I was going to be taking a friend and her daughter. Well in this past year our friendship has gone downhill and since I no longer feel the desire to pay her way she is no longer coming along. I had decided I would try to find a nanny to bring along to help with the kids.
Now I am super mom

at least I think I am so no I do not leave my kids EVER hence why I wanted someone along with my 4 year old so he was not left crying in the club while I tried to do an excursion with my 9 year old. Also so maybe after they are in bed I can escape to meet up with adults to chat and relax.
So long story here I know but any how tonight I got the call back I had been waiting for I have found my nanny! I was not going to use a service so I only asked girls I knew or very close family knew. The girl who is coming along is my brothers ex girlfriend. She is very sweet and great with my kids. My son kinda has a crush on her and gets all goofy when she is around.
I have done this on a lot of other trips that I have gone on. I am single and it is hard for me since I have a hard time finding friends who can travel when I want. My married friends can't just take off for a weekend let alone a week and my single friends usually can't afford to do anything especially if they have kids. So paying someone's way to tag along works well for me.
I am really happy now! I can do a couple things with my daughter I would have skipped and I can hang out with grown ups from time to time!