Hi gang! I'm checking in!
Today I have my first gown fitting! Yeah! It's getting closer!
Tomorrow is my bridal shower. Kind of nervous about that because I have one family member that has been vocal about not being invited on the cruise. She absolutely embarrassed me at a shower for her daughter. She mistakenly assumed that I was paying for my in laws cruise and not paying for my parents and she called me out right in front of the whole table. I was mortified.
I had to set her straight that I didnt want anyone to be put out the expense and I paid for everyone to go, in laws, my parents an the bridal party. She thinks that because she saw my mother hand me a check, that it was my mothers money. Not that it was any of her business, but I had to put her in her place at the table and tell her that the money came from an account of money that my uncle left for me when he died. She is the executor of that account.
I didnt invite most of my family on purpose. If I invited one, they all would have come. I have a very large Italian family, so a regular wedding would have easily been 300 people. We didnt even invite all of John's siblings. He's one of nine. I dont have much time left with my father and I wanted to make sure we made it a nice cozy event that we could all enjoy instead of being a Bridezilla (which happened anyway)
OK, so that is what is on my plate this weekend. I'm getting so excited for this cruise!
Oh, and a special thanks to Maria for being my sounding board. Poor thing...I've never met her before and I go an dump all my stuff on her. As my mother-in-law would say "She's such a darlin'". Thanks Maria!