karajeboo
DISmom by land and by sea!
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Live 365 just went on...maybe that will help me get something done.
DH leaves tonight for a weekend golf outing. I know it annoys my parents that he does these things away from the family so much but it doesn't bother me. My P's have been together 24/7 since the day they got married over 40 years ago. They like it. That's there thing, I actually envy it but my marriage is different. DH doesn't get all over my about my WDW obsession and I let him do his thing. I don't really want to get away with out the kids yet so I don't care that I don't do it myself. Plus, when he's away I still hang with my P's....
Does that make sense?
I TOTALLY get it! We're exactly the same. I think it's something in a woman's make up (and I don't mean Maybelline!) - I hate to go away without DD, even though I complain all the time about not having any "ME" time. Yet, DH can do a couple days no problem. The one time he was gone a whole week, it was really tough on him though, and then when he moved to FL before we did, there were two weekends that he couldn't come home so it was like 12 days away. I know that was tough. But I'm very independent, so I like a little time without him. Hope that didn't sound too mean!
The bad thing is we DO lack alone time with just each other... I guess that will change as the kids get older....
Again, we're the same way. We used to use DH's parents on occasion to watch DD overnight, but now that we're in foreign territory, we don't have that luxury yet. Hopefully we'll be able to do it soon though.