tcufrog
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This sounds like a classic midlife crisis. If that's what it is then do what a lot of men do. Get a new hairstyle that may or may not involve dye or implants and get a sports car. Skip the mistress though.
If it's more than that you need to examine what's at the root of your unhappiness. You need to figure it out, not assume that a mouse will magically cure your problems. Find a good therapist and bring your wife and/or kids if that's part of the problem. If your therapist helps you deem that your career is at the root of the problem then find a good career counselor and head hunter to help you find new career paths and explore selling your firm if it's worth anything. If you are serious about a career change you need to communicate with your wife and listen to her valid concerns. The aforementioned therapist can help with this to keep your marriage from imploding. Finally find a good. independent financial adviser who can look at where y'all stand financially and help you decide on a prudent financial course. We have one and I don't know what we'd do without him. He's given us so much great financial and life advice (some of which weren't in his financial interest) plus he's helped us keep from making some really boneheaded decisions.
If it's more than that you need to examine what's at the root of your unhappiness. You need to figure it out, not assume that a mouse will magically cure your problems. Find a good therapist and bring your wife and/or kids if that's part of the problem. If your therapist helps you deem that your career is at the root of the problem then find a good career counselor and head hunter to help you find new career paths and explore selling your firm if it's worth anything. If you are serious about a career change you need to communicate with your wife and listen to her valid concerns. The aforementioned therapist can help with this to keep your marriage from imploding. Finally find a good. independent financial adviser who can look at where y'all stand financially and help you decide on a prudent financial course. We have one and I don't know what we'd do without him. He's given us so much great financial and life advice (some of which weren't in his financial interest) plus he's helped us keep from making some really boneheaded decisions.