Last one to post........... Part 16

[Mom2Ashli]

The first step was telling all of us how you feel.

 

[eeyoresmountainpals]

but if that happens I don't want to lose him as a friend either. and after you tell someone that, you can't take it back! I'm just really confused!

I don't think any of us is telling you to call him up and tell him that you're madly in love with him and want to spend the rest of your life with him!

Just let him know that you enjoyed spending time with him and would like to get together and do something. And just see where it goes from there. That way, you can decide how you really feel after you see how it goes and by just doing something together you're not jeopardizing your friendship.

 

[trappednabox]

OK! I promise I will do something!! I don't know what yet, but I will do something! I have to stop doing things like this

 

[ckckc2000]

I don't think any of us is telling you to call him up and tell him that you're madly in love with him and want to spend the rest of your life with him!

Just let him know that you enjoyed spending time with him and would like to get together and do something. And just see where it goes from there. That way, you can decide how you really feel after you see how it goes and by just doing something together you're not jeopardizing your friendship.

I agree!!!Even just a casual mention of what a great time you had would go over well!!!

 

[Mom2Ashli]

OK! I promise I will do something!! I don't know what yet, but I will do something! I have to stop doing things like this

Just let him know you are here and enjoy his company. Nothing too big.

 

[eeyoresmountainpals]

We are not talking about telling him you want to marry him and have his babies. Just tell him how you feel right now. That you enjoy spending time with him. THE TRUTH. That could mean as friends also. Than go from there.

I just posted almost the same thing Kelli! Great minds think alike!

The poor guy is probably going crazy thinking that you don't like him or something.

I agree!

I chased DH. When he moved back to Ohio I called him Brother and got his address. I am the one that started that. And after writing back and forth I realized he was trying to figure out how to get a hold of me.

I chased my DH too!

 

[trappednabox]

Just let him know you are here and enjoy his company. Nothing too big.

 

[ckckc2000]

I was thinking the same thing-you two posted almost exactly the same thoughts

 

[Mom2Ashli]

Tracy we are all here for you for ANYTHING~

That is one of the most amazing things about the LTP ladies. I know I can come here and unload on you guys and somebody is going to say something to help me out.

I hope that we can do the same for you.

 

[Mom2Ashli]

I just posted almost the same thing Kelli! Great minds think alike!



I agree!

I chased my DH too![/QUOTE]

GREAT WISE MINDS!!!

 

[ckckc2000]

Next time you guys get together-just mention what a great time you had-then add "don't you think so???"

 

[eeyoresmountainpals]

Tracy we are all here for you for ANYTHING~

That is one of the most amazing things about the LTP ladies. I know I can come here and unload on you guys and somebody is going to say something to help me out.

I hope that we can do the same for you.

 

[ckckc2000]

Baby steps!!!

 

[Mom2Ashli]

Don't get me wrong - sometimes I wonder WHY I chased him but I did.

 

[trappednabox]

Tracy we are all here for you for ANYTHING~

That is one of the most amazing things about the LTP ladies. I know I can come here and unload on you guys and somebody is going to say something to help me out.

I hope that we can do the same for you.

Yeah that's one of the main reasons why I love you guys! I don't know what I would do if I couldn't talk to you all!

 

[Mom2Ashli]

Next time you guys get together-just mention what a great time you had-then add "don't you think so???"

 

[Mom2Ashli]

Yeah that's one of the main reasons why I love you guys! I don't know what I would do if I couldn't talk to you all!

I am sitting here crying my eyes out........

 

[trappednabox]

I am sitting here crying my eyes........

 

[eeyoresmountainpals]

Yeah that's one of the main reasons why I love you guys! I don't know what I would do if I couldn't talk to you all!

I often wonder what I did before I met all of you. It seems like I've know you forever!

 

[ckckc2000]

I was just remembering....-I couldn't tell my Dh that I loved him after we were dating about 9 months-(I was raised in a really weird family-we never heard those words(still haven't from my Dad) growing up)-so it was really difficult-I really had to force my self to say it-It was almost painful cause I was so scared!But I did it, and everytime after that it was easier and easier to do-so just take some baby steps and soon you'll feel more comfortable