Lacey & Keith's 10/24/11 Wishes Wedding! ***honeymoon, day 4...updated 6/18***

[NicknNancy]

Just read your entire PJ and I am VERY impressed with your ideas!!! I took note of a lot of your ideas and I can't wait to see what else you come up with!!

 

[NicknNancy]

Just another thing....who was your seller for your maids' necklaces?? I love them!

 

[pinkfairy1684]

Lacey,

Sorry, I don't think I have posted before, which is totally my bad! Everything looks awesome! Love the plan. Looks like a fabulous wedding trip.

from another MA bride.

Thank you so much, Bethie! Where in MA are you located???

Just read your entire PJ and I am VERY impressed with your ideas!!! I took note of a lot of your ideas and I can't wait to see what else you come up with!!

Just another thing....who was your seller for your maids' necklaces?? I love them!

Nancy, glad you liked what you have seen! My etsy seller for the BM necklaces was delicatecreationsbym. She was WONDERFUL! I was hesitant to order all 4 fuschia necklaces because I was worried they wouldn't be the proper color. She told me to order one and if it was wrong in any way, she would take it back/change it without a problem. They turned out to be perfect!

 

[tinkerbell 766]

Lacey sweetie - Just catching up and loving everything!!! Getting very close now!!

 

[yourgypsy]

Just started reading, and your enthusiasm is very contagious! Your posts have been super helpful! And it's always nice to someone else from MA.

 

[pinkfairy1684]

Lacey sweetie - Just catching up and loving everything!!! Getting very close now!!

Joanne, I am just astonished at how fast time is flying by!!! Thanks for keeping up with my PJ. Your comments are always so sweet.

Just started reading, and your enthusiasm is very contagious! Your posts have been super helpful! And it's always nice to someone else from MA.

Wow! That makes 2 new MA brides commenting on my PJ in 2 days! Where in MA are you from?

Thanks so much for the kind words!

 

[yourgypsy]

Joanne, I am just astonished at how fast time is flying by!!! Thanks for keeping up with my PJ. Your comments are always so sweet.



Wow! That makes 2 new MA brides commenting on my PJ in 2 days! Where in MA are you from?

Thanks so much for the kind words!

I'm in New Bedford, down towards the Cape. How about you?

 

[LuvLuvLuv]

your plans look great!!! it's coming up quick!!! it'll be here before you know it!

 

[pinkfairy1684]

I'm in New Bedford, down towards the Cape. How about you?

I am in Grafton, which is near Worcester.

your plans look great!!! it's coming up quick!!! it'll be here before you know it!

I know, I really can't believe it! Part of me wishes the day would just get here already, and part of me doesn't want it to ever end! Thanks for reading along!

 

[BethieTink]

And I am in Medford, right outside of Boston.

 

[pinkfairy1684]

And I am in Medford, right outside of Boston.

Yay! It sure is a small world after all.....hahahaha

 

[pinkfairy1684]

So I am sitting here at the computer and I am COMPLETELY irritated with one of DF's groomsmen. Now let me start out by saying that said groomsman is a very nice guy, and I like him very much. However, he has this issue with relationships...I can only describe him as a serial dater. He has had more girlfriends than Hugh Hefner. He doesn't use any of them, he truly believes that each of them is "the one". When we first asked him to be in the wedding (just about a year from the actual wedding date, he had just started dating some girl. He immediately booked her an airline ticket to come to the wedding as his date. About 3 months ago, they broke up (surprise, surprise). He told us that he was going to come solo. DF told him he couldn't decide to bring someone else at the last minute, and he agreed. Wouldn't you know, DF just got a call from him saying, "I found a date and she just booked her ticket!". Umm, hello? I have already made the final payment and finalized the number of guests. Am I overreacting? I feel like bridezilla.....

 

[DisneyShamrock]

So I am sitting here at the computer and I am COMPLETELY irritated with one of DF's groomsmen. Now let me start out by saying that said groomsman is a very nice guy, and I like him very much. However, he has this issue with relationships...I can only describe him as a serial dater. He has had more girlfriends than Hugh Hefner. He doesn't use any of them, he truly believes that each of them is "the one". When we first asked him to be in the wedding (just about a year from the actual wedding date, he had just started dating some girl. He immediately booked her an airline ticket to come to the wedding as his date. About 3 months ago, they broke up (surprise, surprise). He told us that he was going to come solo. DF told him he couldn't decide to bring someone else at the last minute, and he agreed. Wouldn't you know, DF just got a call from him saying, "I found a date and she just booked her ticket!". Umm, hello? I have already made the final payment and finalized the number of guests. Am I overreacting? I feel like bridezilla.....

Don't feel like a bridezilla. You clearly let him know he couldn't do what he did, and he agreed. You have every right to tell him to leave her at home. Honestly, that's what I would do.

 

[DoomBuggy0922]

You are TOTALLY not being a bridezilla! He said he was bringing someone, and then they broke up and he said he knew he could not bring anyone after that. Etiquette says only to invite peoples' partners if they have been together for over a year. He is being a groomsmenzilla! Tell him to leave the chick in the room!!

 

[NicknNancy]

First of all....this groomsmen sounds just like my DF's best man lol ....except our BM DOES use girls.. ...That being said....you are NOT being a bridezilla!! Just tell him either he pays for her dinner and everything or she can't come....or just wait a month and they will be broken up anyways right?! lol ....but seriously...lay down the law girl!

 

[pinkfairy1684]

Don't feel like a bridezilla. You clearly let him know he couldn't do what he did, and he agreed. You have every right to tell him to leave her at home. Honestly, that's what I would do.

You are TOTALLY not being a bridezilla! He said he was bringing someone, and then they broke up and he said he knew he could not bring anyone after that. Etiquette says only to invite peoples' partners if they have been together for over a year. He is being a groomsmenzilla! Tell him to leave the chick in the room!!

First of all....this groomsmen sounds just like my DF's best man lol ....except our BM DOES use girls.. ...That being said....you are NOT being a bridezilla!! Just tell him either he pays for her dinner and everything or she can't come....or just wait a month and they will be broken up anyways right?! lol ....but seriously...lay down the law girl!

Thanks girls! It makes me feel better to know that you all think I am not a complete witch!

 

[yourgypsy]

Nope, not a bridezilla at all. You told him ahead of time, and he just... disregarded it. How would he take it if you explained that while there won't be 'room' so to speak at everything, she can certainly come along for non-weddingy-stuff?

 

[roxysmum123]

IMHO she can come all she wants, just can't participate in the wedding festivities. If she wasn't to come view the ceremony (you don't get charged for extra people there do you?) then more power to her, but she's on her own for food and entertainment for the rest of the day... enjoy the parks lady!

Personally if I was a last minute "and guest" to a wedding somewhere like WDW I'd completely understand. And beyond that, if I didn't know anyone there I'd prob be glad for the opportunity to explore the parks by myself for a day.

 

[pinkfairy1684]

Nope, not a bridezilla at all. You told him ahead of time, and he just... disregarded it. How would he take it if you explained that while there won't be 'room' so to speak at everything, she can certainly come along for non-weddingy-stuff?

IMHO she can come all she wants, just can't participate in the wedding festivities. If she wasn't to come view the ceremony (you don't get charged for extra people there do you?) then more power to her, but she's on her own for food and entertainment for the rest of the day... enjoy the parks lady!

Personally if I was a last minute "and guest" to a wedding somewhere like WDW I'd completely understand. And beyond that, if I didn't know anyone there I'd prob be glad for the opportunity to explore the parks by myself for a day.

Thanks so much for the support!

I decided to let DF handle the situation (since the groomsman is technically his responsibility ). As it turns out, the groomsman is ok with our decision about her not coming to the wedding. Glad that bit of stress is over!

 

[pinkfairy1684]

I have been very stressed out in the last couple of weeks because I have been studying for a very important exam that I need in order to apply for my independent license (LMHC). This license will allow me to independently practice mental health therapy in MA. And I passed the test today! I can't tell you have relieved I feel!

Now on to wedding stuff! Remember how I told you that DF was working on getting our wine box for the ceremony? Well, he received it in the mail today!

In case you can't make out the words, it says "Keith and Lacey, October 24, 2011"

DF had him include a little Hidden Mickey!