A very valid point. But when people say: "I can't put my finger on it, but it just wasn't the same...just not as good as I remember", there is a good chance that the person making that statement went to WDW in its prime. Such comparisons are natural, and in this instance, I think, valid. If you went to WDW between 2005-2010, I'd love to hear your thoughts on how you viewed the "then" versus "now". Especially at DHS and Epcot. (And Downtown Disney, and Pleasure Island).
This EXACTLY!
When I say MAGICAL EXPERIENCE, I don't mean it in the sense that I'm WAITING for someone to DO SOMETHING for me, like something special or an upgrade. That's not what it is about, but it's more of an overall experience. What makes Disney being different than say, Six Flags, Hershey, or some other amusement park… because IT'S DISNEY, and it used to be VERY different.
I'd say our most "magical" trip was probably 2007, and nothing particular "special" happened then AT ALL. It was our first time staying on Disney property (all the many other times we've stayed offsite). We loved Disney so much we decided to give onsite a try. There was such a Disney bubble back then that's not there for us anymore.
Since that 2007 trip, we've since stayed at many of the deluxes, and something about that 2007 trip (which was at a moderate btw), was SO MAGICAL that it still remains our favorite (it was at CBR and we still prefer that trip over the one to GF, which was last year)!
Now, for the first time in a LONG time we're back to being okay with staying offsite. Our next trip we're actually splitting between on and offsite, just to take a "break" from Disney. A BREAK?! We've NEVER WANTED a break before! But with the crowds, the insane construction, the feeling of herding; I feel like it's not much of a vacation. For us, it's just about Disney being so different today. We still go, because we enjoy the rides that are there (GOD PLEASE DON'T CLOSE ANYMORE OF THE OLDER ATTRACTIONS, PLEASE!), and we enjoy spending time together no matter WHERE we are.
THAT is magical, but the feeling of "THIS PLACE is so magical," is definitely not there as much as it used to be. Maybe it's the decline in character interaction, or the fact that so many beloved attractions have CLOSED, without being REPLACED, (Epcot is a HUGE example of this, HS is a half day for us now, and you mention the New Fantasyland, and while that's great and all, it did force things to close). Yes, it brought in some great attractions (Mine Train and Little Mermaid), but I sure do miss Snow White's scary ride.
Something I remember back during our 2006/2007 trips was the dining plan. They were a MASSIVE SAVINGS FOR US! You'd get an app, entree, dessert - we just couldn't believe the VALUE and the EASE. There was one plan, now there are many, the cost is not only greater but you get much less.
We had a terrible experience last year where they cancelled our evening on the Grand 1 mere HOURS before we were set to depart. This was not an inexpensive experience, and I can't help but feel "old" Disney would have come up with a solution, other than what we were given, which was, "We don't know when it will be fixed. Here, go to MK and watch the fireworks instead." This was my anniversary gift to my husband (which left me empty handed now). He understood once I explained it to him, but I remember us talking over dinner, like, "How could Disney not come up with anything else? It's Disney!" (Again, NOT in terms of FREE, that's not what I was looking for. I was looking for SOMETHING ELSE I COULD PAY FOR). Before I told my husband about my (now) ruined surprise, I spent my time in the park that day, sneaking off to the bathroom and calling, begging them for something else to do. I didn't care the cost, I wanted this unique experience gift to him since Disney has always been so special.
Nothing.
We ended up going to MK to watch the fireworks, which yes, compared to what we were suppose to do was a let down. Especially since we were getting there late from dinner at the GF. How do you go from, "I'm going to see the fireworks on the Grand 1 tonight" to "I'm going to rush to MK after dinner and see the backs of people's heads in a too crowded space."
Again, I don't feel like I was out of line asking for some that was along the lines of the experience THAT I WANTED TO PAY FOR.
It's like another poster mentioned about the commercials, and how they advertise how "magical" Disney is, how things "just happen," how "empty" is is. That's not the reality of what it's like there, and in my case during our last trip, even when I wanted to pay for something. Not the reality of it. And that's just the thing. We KNEW how Disney has slowly declined, so I wanted to MAKE OUR OWN MAGIC EXPERIENCE by booking the Grand 1.
But then what happens when one books their OWN magical experience and THAT'S a let down too?
We were in
Disneyland this past summer, where they have a lot of CLASSIC rides (not to mention SO MANY RIDES in only 2 parks!). They still had the old FP, and my husband and I just had such an EASY day. We looked at each other and we're like THIS IS IT! THIS IS MAGICAL! Characters popped up, we met them and it was cute, we got to go on our favorite rides MULTIPLE times, we didn't have to reserve dining so far in advance (we got into Blue Bayou the week before!). Something about it was just MAGICAL (and we didn't even stay on property!).
In Disney World, I don't ever remember previously going in the past and being TURNED AWAY from a character M&G because there are TOO MANY PEOPLE. Then having to PLAN to come back. Things just happened, a character would appear and you'd get to meet them, or a fun show would take place out of nowhere... it was a lot more spontaneous and so to me that's more magical. It made it more than an average amusement park. A lot of the cast members were overall friendlier and happier. Yes, there are still a lot of amazing ones, but I don't remember ever seeing one without a smile, or a hello. It's an experience thing. Lately, I've seen so many stressed faces on cast members and I can't help but think it's because they are overwhelmed with the crowds, people, and new FP+ system… I don't know how to explain it… it used to just be DIFFERENT. I remember being able to stay on a ride if I wanted to go a second time if it wasn't busy. I don't remember EVER having to PLAN as much as I do now, but I almost feel FORCED TO PLAN just so I can attempt to get the same experiences I used to. Because yes, I would be disappointed if I were turned away somewhere I wanted to go. Obviously the fix to this would be to plan, but at what cost? I miss when I would just GO and things would HAPPEN (a short wait, a show, a character, a friendly face). Again, not in the sense of entitlement AT ALL, just in the sense of the EASE OF THINGS, which lead to my personal overall enjoyment.
I just feel like for the increase cost, the experience should be increasing, not declining. I will lower my expectations, but that's such a terrible thing to do and say! I can only hope that the less of an experience now will lead to a better experience in the future.