Wow, this thread has exploded!
I appreciate all the comisseration and story's both positive and negative experiences.
As to expectations, no, it was not a matter of my expectations being too high. I'm generally a person with low expectations. Very easy to please. There was just so much about this vacation that felt rushed, pushed, herded it was unfortunate. Interestingly I didn't feel the same mentality at universal the two days we spent there. Funny enough one of the days was pouring rain, we were drenched, but it felt more relaxed, more fun, more something I can't put my finger on. I had booked universal because dh is not a Disney fan. I never expected to enjoy it much, I love my disney! But right now if I planned another trip to Florida universal would be on my list, not Disney. And honestly, I hate that lol.
As to the meet and greet times, I think some people are not getting what I mean. Anna and elsa felt rushed. Elsa literally drapes an arm around a kid and herds them on mid sentance. I was thinking about the few other meet and greets we did. Chip and dale in HS was probably just as quick. But they goofed, and hugged, and played, and never once ushered dd out. It certainly wasn't much longer, a minute and a half, 2 minutes at most, but it didn't feel like we were shoved out. And chip and dale don't even talk! And honestly, if disney really cared about guest experience wouldn't they limit more the number of people either getting in line or booking a fast past for these hot ticket meet and greet / rides? It feels now like it's more about quantity and how many people can we pack through an attraction a day, and less about ensuring the quality of the experience is good. Sure there will always be those people that want more, bigger, better, but I assure you that's not me.
I was interested to read the thought about Disney's best times in the mid 2000's. We went in 2008, and 2010. I remember we noticed a few downgrades in 2010, bus issues, toon town closed, bad service at the resort. But I don't remember feeling letdown at the end.
It was still a good time, because let's face it, anytime you don't have to pack lunches, heard kids into the school bus, help with homework, shovel snow you're winning. The kids had some great times. It wasn't all awful, and overall I would rate it "ok". It just wasn't enough to consider going back anytime soon.