Jon & Kate plus 8 budget?

[SeeDisney]

Scottish Mum ---- in answer to your question. The sextuplets are now approaching 4 1/2 years old.

Wow....had no idea this show is being aired overseas.

 

[allison443]

I agree that this is true. But with 8 kids and one salary, they would be wondering how to feed them, which also doesn't equate the best life either. While I agree, money isn't everything in life, it sure does help.

Well, considering they had twins, and then went in for further fertility treatments knowing the possibility of multiples, I always wonder how they thought or planned they were going to support their eight kids, before the possibility of the tv show came along. People are always saying "don't have more kids than you can afford" but that is just what J & K did. Luckily for them they were later able to get a lucrative tv show deal! Honestly, how would they be doing financially otherwise??

 

[madge]

It's not that they "deserve" it more than anyone else, but having sextuplets is very rare and unique. Throw in the fact that all the sextuplets are healthy and that the family has a set of twins to boot, and their situation becomes even more unique. All this makes people very interested in their lives. And because people are more interested in their lives than they would be in most of our lives, Jon & Kate ultimately had the offer to do the the show, and the show has given them opportunities most of us don't have. It has nothing to do with what they "deserve" and everything to do with circumstance.

I couldn't agree more. And I totally get the reasoning behind how they got where they are. And as a PP poster put it - this is similar to winning the lottery. Jon & Kate took a big gamble with the fertility treatments, and it's paid off for them in a big way. beautiful children and a successful TV show.

To me, they're earning the outings and perks because they've been given the opportunity to do the show. But, time and time again, the excuse has been made that Jon & Kate deserve these things. People have dug deep into their hearts and wallets, giving them money, toys, etc. because they believe Jon & Kate need the help. Because that's what Jon & Kate have led the public to think.

Let's face it, few people actually get what they "deserve" in life. Neither the good or nor the bad, for that matter. But I do believe that Karma has a way of catchnig up with you.

For the record I'm not a fan at all. Kate seems like a highly flawed human being, based on all the "falling outs" she has with people--her family included. A PP used the term disingenuous and I think that about sums it up. If she were as "Christian" as she purports to be, then she would learn how to work and play better with others and she would learn to be equally gracious for all gifts she has recieved, from the used car seats to the trip to Hawaii.

I agree.

 

[madge]

Well, considering they had twins, and then went in for further fertility treatments knowing the possibility of multiples, I always wonder how they thought or planned they were going to support their eight kids, before the possibility of the tv show came along. People are always saying "don't have more kids than you can afford" but that is just what J & K did. Luckily for them they were later able to get a lucrative tv show deal! Honestly, how would they be doing financially otherwise??

well, Jon & Kate are not unskilled people. Jon had an IT job, and Kate is trained as a nurse. Jon could work during the week and Kate on weekends.

 

[MommaluvsDis]

I've been reading this thread for several days as this was one of my favorite shows.

I've noticed, however, that lately Kate has this look on her face when they're doing the interviews on the couch. I doon't know if she's tired or just what but her whole vibe has changed.


Not that I've been asked but I don't approve of the cameras showing the children in stages of undress, no shirt, etc, using the potty, etc. There are a lot of sick people out there and these are things that I feel should not be shown on TV. These are private times.

I, too, wonder about all the children. How will they feel when they're older? I might have done a couple of seasons if it was me but that would have been all.

 

[kaysmommie]

I have to say that I LOVE the show. I've watched it since the beginning. Kate is a hoot. I have watched a lot of the subtle nuances of the show and have seen a lot of changes in them for the good.
Kate is a shrew.. Type A... but it looks like it's always been that way. If anything I think she is a bit more relaxed lately.
I have noticed that John has started to grow a bit of a spine, he snaps back! As soon as he does, she realized she has crossed the line. Go John!
I have heard Kate acknowledge all the helpers/babysitters many times. Talking about how the show has changed things and now they have more of this help. (I also think this is part of why she is less obsessive, she has had to "let go" a bit)
They are getting tons of free stuff. Good for them! Hey, I don't know many of us who wouldn't want to "move on up" if we got the chance. They seem to be good people. The kids are very "REAL". I love they way the smack each other, etc.. That is real life with a crowd that big. I love that Maddie is always pouting about something. I have one like that. It's real to me.
One way or another, love them or hate them, they have managed over 134 posts on this board over the last few days. I myself will be watching until the last episode!

Well said! I'll be watching the show too.

 

[momtoBrandon&Jacob]

Has anyone noticed that Kate spends absolutely no time with her boys? Why does she never go on outings with them or spend any quality time with them like she does with her girls? It seems like when the girls have their one on ones both John and Kate go, but when it's the boys day out only John goes. I've also noticed that she puts the boys down quite a bit about their speech skills, lisps, etc. She's a shrew of a mother, and I hope that when John wakes up and finally leaves her and takes the boys with him - she probably wouldn't even notice!

 

[disykat]

Here I go to defend J&K again! I'm the mom of boys and I don't see Kate not loving her boys. "Spending absolutely no time with them?" ???? Many families, I guess you could say mine included, make an effort for their boys to have male role model time with Dad - especially if they are in a family that is a majority of girls.

My boys spent the majority of their days with me, so we make sure they sometimes have special outings just with Dad. I remember my Dad taking my brother on father/son things as well.

I'm lucky, when my husband takes my boys for outings I get time to myself. K is home with at least 5other kids.

 

[momtoBrandon&Jacob]

Here I go to defend J&K again! I'm the mom of boys and I don't see Kate not loving her boys. "Spending absolutely no time with them?" ???? Many families, I guess you could say mine included, make an effort for their boys to have male role model time with Dad - especially if they are in a family that is a majority of girls.

My boys spent the majority of their days with me, so we make sure they sometimes have special outings just with Dad. I remember my Dad taking my brother on father/son things as well.

I'm lucky, when my husband takes my boys for outings I get time to myself. K is home with at least 5other kids.

I guess since I just have my 2 boys I notice these things. It wouldn't hurt Kate to have one on one time with her boys - she may learn a thing or two from them.

 

[krystalleigh1]

Wow, I don't watch the show often but just have to say . . . people can be very judgemental about people they don't even know. I'm sure the editors of the show portray J & K fairly realistically but they can't show every aspect of every day of their lives in a weekly television show. They show only the most interesting parts. So for people to judge someone's character based on what they see on this show from week to week just seems so wrong to me.

 

[MaMa3Princess]

Wow, I don't watch the show often but just have to say . . . people can be very judgemental about people they don't even know. I'm sure the editors of the show portray J & K fairly realistically but they can't show every aspect of every day of their lives in a weekly television show. They show only the most interesting parts. So for people to judge someone's character based on what they see on this show from week to week just seems so wrong to me.

Now that I can agree with. Everyone is entitled to their opinion but to be so down right harsh and cruel to people that you don't pesonally know It is tv for enertainment purpose onl y. Anyone who thinks these shows are scripted to make anyone seen in a positive light is asking too much. Just look at these post we as a culture love negativity and the more negative or sensationalized it is the more we want to watch it. John and Kate made a decision to open up their lives and home to others and yes people say they get what they deserve but to actual tear down people you dont know I dont get

 

[dizkids]

I'm always fascinated with others that disect the lives of people they know from TV land. I think if you like the show watch it. If you dont like it dont watch it.

 

[blessedby3]

I'm always fascinated with others that disect the lives of people they know from TV land. I think if you like the show watch it. If you dont like it dont watch it.

I agree.
They are parents doing the best they know how for their kids. I would say there are not too many people in this world that are in their shoes(with 6 four year olds and twins too) and until you have walked in them you cant say for sure what you would do. Everyone would not make the same choices as Jon and Kate do, and that is fine. We are all different. Why bash this family because they dont do what you think they should?
If you like the show, watch it. If not, turn the channel.

 

[sandraB]

I have been a J&K fan since the begining of the show...I don't watch every episode, but I do enjoy the show.

I hadn't really thought about all the negative things until I started reading this post...I can't believe that people would really think they know this family, or how much Kate loves her "boys". I watched the other night, thinking, "oh no...now I will notice she doesn't love Joel, etc...."

Guess what? She gave lots of love to her boys....I was watching for it! I really think she is just a human being, "flawed" like the rest of us...but she is out there , so she is easier to critisize.....

I know that is part of being on TV, but really...do we need to get soooooo nasty? Like saying she doesn't love her boys the same???? That is just mean.

I think it is ok to talk about the show, but we don't know these people, we don't know how much they love their kids. I would rather see the good in them, and continue watching the show with an open mind, and kind heart.....

 

[madge]

Has anyone noticed that Kate spends absolutely no time with her boys? Why does she never go on outings with them or spend any quality time with them like she does with her girls? It seems like when the girls have their one on ones both John and Kate go, but when it's the boys day out only John goes. I've also noticed that she puts the boys down quite a bit about their speech skills, lisps, etc. She's a shrew of a mother, and I hope that when John wakes up and finally leaves her and takes the boys with him - she probably wouldn't even notice!

I think Kate loves her children (the boys and the girls) the best way she knows how... with that said, Kate thinks boys are yucky. She says that on air all the time.

I do wonder if things aren't edited to show Kate favoring the girls. I hope that it is an edit, and not how it really is. One of those things we'll never know ...

 

[problemchild718]

Their wedding or renewal and trip to hawaii was paid for my TLC as part of filming.[/QUOTE]

On the show, Kate said the tip was offered by the resort (who gets the advertisement of course)

 

[katscradle]

I watched for a bit.
Thought the kids were cute.
But I don't like the way she treats or talks to Jon.
He has no spine.
What are they teaching their children about how to treat the one you love.
As for their extended family (parents, bothers, sisters) only they know the real problems.
They are teaching their children to run when things get tough.
I am a woman who met the love of my life 14 years ago.
My family will not accept him.
I have 2 children with this man.
He is a wonderful man who has bent over backwards to help them.
I have always maintained that they deserve to be rasied in a loving happy home with 2 parents that love them.
My family cannot get this.
So all communitcation has ceased.
I felt that after trying for so long it was time to put DH first along with my boys.

 

[problemchild718]

I think these are two loving parents who truely wanted children and love their kids. I also think that they were living with a huge amount of financial worry in the beginning. They have done what they need to in order to provide for their children. I believe they have been very intelligent about their business dealings.
Kate seems to be a type a, but not overly concerned with "things". Her home isn't decorated, she doesn't seem to care much about clothing. Sure, they go on trips-and you bet I'd be outta here if someone offered me a trip.
As much as we all savanger bargains and freebees-none of us should be sitting in judgement about free shampoo or toys.
Heck if I had eight kids and needed a bigger house and to pay for them, I'd do the same thing-unil my kids were bothered by it.
Oh, and I will be buying the Jon and Kate DVD's for my daughter for Christmas

 

[delmar411]

Kate seems to be a type a, but not overly concerned with "things". Her home isn't decorated, she doesn't seem to care much about clothing.

I swear I just can't look away from this thread! LOL

Anyway she has all her knick knacks and stuff in their bedroom closet. I forget why they were going in there but it was a closet like in one of those crazy hoarder shows. She packed up all the items so the kids wouldn't break anything which I do think is pretty smart since the kids have free run of the house.

I did something similar when I was faced with having 3 under 3 and I needed the peace of mind.

 

[elastigirl]

Wow, I don't watch the show often but just have to say . . . people can be very judgemental about people they don't even know. I'm sure the editors of the show portray J & K fairly realistically but they can't show every aspect of every day of their lives in a weekly television show. They show only the most interesting parts. So for people to judge someone's character based on what they see on this show from week to week just seems so wrong to me.

I don't necessarily disagree. But the first thought that came to mind was "that's what you get for selling your daily life for public entertainment." They made the choice to make their lives public, and have profited heavily from it. The bad comes with the good, and yes, in a situation like this, people will make judgments about what they've seen on tv.