Hello! I just wanted to say Congrats and wow everything seems beautiful and so well thought out and planned, I am greatly impressed!
My story is a bit the same as yours, abusive husband that I left with two teens married my soulmate..
We have just decided to do a VR on our 5th anniversary which will not be until Sept 2013 and my head is spinning. We need that time to save up, we have a WDW trip for this Sept with my teens and a suprise one day visit just for
MVMCP for DD bday.
I emailed for info but where do I start exactly? I would LOVE your input feel free to PM me.
Sweet Tasha
Thank you for posting!!! Iam so happy that you managed to leave all the abuse and heartache behind you and find your soulmate!! We are obviously much alike!!
Thank you for your lovely comments!!
This VR has taken a lot of planning. We first decided to go ahead with it in more than two years ago

. Originally we planned it for our 10th anniversary but due to the commitments of other family members, decided this year would be better. Our VR will now take place 11 years and 5 days after we were married

Planning it has been a long, twisty turny road!! We have changed our minds several times over different things. We started out planning a DFTW Escape but switched to S/D when we realized we could get more 'bang for our buck' with them. We were also getting a little frustrated with all of Disney's rules and regulations. It is a big thing for me to say it because I am the biggest Disney fan ever (and always will be) but it was all starting to hack me off!!
Since we switched to S/D it has been heavenly plain sailing!!
All that said, I have enjoyed EVERY MOMENT of my planning journey and I am now soooo looking forward to my big day. We really are into final countdown now (only 9 more shifts to do at work

).
I guess to start off with you need to decide the following:-
What type of day you want (big or small, formal or informal etc)
What is important to you (photography, location etc)
Budget (this is a big consideration!!)
When you want the day to be.
When you have that framework in place, you can build around it and start to contact companies, planners and vendors. You are lucky to have the September trip planned. It might be an idea to have a scout of any venues you are interested in and see what you think.
This is basically how I started my planning!!
If you need any other help, don't hesitate to ask!!! I am sooo happy to help!!!
Good luck and..... oh yeah MANY CONGRATULATIONS!!!