vettechick99
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I know a boy and a girl with the name. I think it's adorable either way!!
Congrats!!
Congrats!!
No need to get mad and defensive because someone gave an opinion which you asked for. You asked boy or girl; I replied neither. I was responding to someone else (not you) when asked why.
OP here again! Wow, thanks for all the responses!
I really don't care if someone thinks it's "appropriate" (WTH does that mean, anyway?) or not. That's not what I asked. You don't have to like it, no big deal. Although, I do think it seems a *tad* high and mighty to come on here and decree what's "appropriate" or not, based on whether you like it and/or whether you think it's historically valid.
I hear lots of names I don't like - but I don't kid myself that *I* know what is "appropriate" and what's not.
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You asked if it was a boy or girl name to us. We answered that it reminds us of liquor - not a gender- or a porn person - female. Name your child what you like and no- you shouldn't care what anyone else thinks, but when you ask a question you should expect an answer. You don't have to like it but there is always that possibility that someone might answer your question in a manner in which you don't like. Good luck and I hope you enjoy your little miracle whatever you chose to name him/her!OP here again! Wow, thanks for all the responses!
I really don't care if someone thinks it's "appropriate" (WTH does that mean, anyway?) or not. That's not what I asked. You don't have to like it, no big deal. Although, I do think it seems a *tad* high and mighty to come on here and decree what's "appropriate" or not, based on whether you like it and/or whether you think it's historically valid.
I hear lots of names I don't like - but I don't kid myself that *I* know what is "appropriate" and what's not.
And sorry I keep putting appopriate in quotation marks - it's just such an odd and rude thing to say.![]()
My main question, I think, has been answered - people generally think it's a boy's name. I love the nickname Jay and that's what he'd be called everyday. My preference is actually naming him James - but DH is so in love with the name Jameson that I'm trying to keep an open mind.![]()
Again - I don't give two hoots about the porn or liquor connection. I've had my share of alcohol in my life and I've never heard of Jameson whiskey until this thread. Jenna Jamison is a has-been who'll be unknown by the next generation.
You asked if it was a boy or girl name to us. We answered that it reminds us of liquor - not a gender- or a porn person - female. Name your child what you like and no- you shouldn't care what anyone else thinks, but when you ask a question you should expect an answer. You don't have to like it but there is always that possibility that someone might answer your question in a manner in which you don't like. Good luck and I hope you enjoy your little miracle whatever you chose to name him/her!![]()
I don't care for Jay -- no reason, you just can't like everything -- but I do like Jamie. Hmmm . . . now that I think of it, I definitely like Jamie better for a girl than for a boy. Jimmy isn't too far out for this name either. I would definitely go with James or Jameson on the birth certificate because James can always be called Jamie, but it can't go the other way. Jamie and Jay are both a little "casual", and that may or may not turn out to be your child's personality. My mom intended to give me a traditional name and call me by a common nickname (kind of like James /Jamie); she said that from the day I was born the nickname never fit -- but the traditional name she'd chosen did.
That is something to think about. Part of the reason I like Jay is *because* it's casual and laid back. But if that doesn't fit our kiddo's personality, I don't know if I want to be calling him Jameson day in and day out. Hmmmm...
James would be my preference. But DH has a *thing* for unusual names with common nicknames. He has a cousin who's name is Mathias - but goes by Matt. DH loves that. Or Bennett, call him Ben. He's been trying to talk me into Jameson for soooo long but my big hang-up with it was, I thought it sounded feminine - hence the thread. But now that I find that most people feel it's a boy's name, it's kinda growing on me. Honestly, I would be doing this more for my husband than for me. He sort of let me "take the reins" with our daughter's name, so...
Thank you, we are very excited!
When I said I don't give two hoots, I didn't mean that I was upset or anyone was offending me. I know that there will always be differing viewpoints. What I meant by the "two hoots" comment was - the liquor/porn connection doesn't bother me at all. It doesn't factor into my decision on whether I like the name or not. To me, it's irrelevant. (sp??)
Honestly, I'm not even *sure* if I love the name or not. I'm still mulling it over, but I admit, it is growing on me.![]()