Well I just got back from coffee with everyone and my parents are struggling with the concept that they're being invited!

I keep saying they're invited but they keep saying what fun for us so I had to spell it out for them. I went over all the options we have as well, and I came back to find the answer I was looking for it seems from Serial below:
90 days means May is certainly out the window which is sad but I am glad I have my answer! We don't do the dining plan so thankfully thats not an issue for us - I'll reply to your PM shortly thank you!
I think I would get along splendidly with your husband!

We can afford it - but there is a guilty part of me that doesn't *want* to. If we maxed out at the suggested cost then its going to be somewhere between $1750 & $2300 or so in taxes come next year.... we'll surely go at a lower time of year than that but still. We'll still need to get a second room for my parents for three nights as well. In truth, if it were up to me I'd cancel May but my Dad immediately said go twice (if you knew him you'd be

). But then, this sort of thing does NOT happen every day! We had enough of a refund this year that I think we won't owe next tax season, or at least not much. We plugged it in with this years numbers and everything was OK. I'm just going to have to triple check at work that they are OK with me taking a couple of days unpaid since I had already scheduled my vacation time, but I think I am in for TWO trips this year.