NotUrsula
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Remember Colleen, we are talking "in general" and over the last 30-40 years. As a general rule in our country, our standard of living has gone through the roof. Only recently has it flat lined. Remember, the market conditions and economic conditions that you're describing have only come about since 2007 when the housing market fell. Prior to that people where seeing 20-30 even 50% growth in their houses and we all thought it would last forever. Remember the tv showm "flip my house"? people were buying houses and immediately "flipping" them for huge profits.
As a whole we're are a society that got use to playing "kick the can" both individually and with our government. credit became free and easy and like kids on a sugar high, we dove in!!
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What I think we are saying is the fundementally our society has shifted and whether we like it or not we've been "living la vida loca" for the last 3-4 decades on phoney, unsustainable conditions. Now the problem is we've got to fix this problem but unfortunately no one wants "their" situation to change.
I think that a huge part of this is simple marketing. There is such media saturation in our era that the marketing is so in your face that it is nearly impossible to escape from or ignore it; you really have to want to.
The marketing-resistant are still out there, and yes, we are a minority, but there are probably more of us than most people think. However, we are also unusually strong-willed. The vast majority of people are very susceptible to slick marketing, and when they are bombarded with messages that something is a must-do or a must-have, they fall right into line.
Even journalism these days is heavily market-oriented. News outlets these days all tailor their coverage to appeal to a certain demographic that the advertisers of their networks' programming departments wish to reach.
Two days ago I bought a smartphone. I didn't want it; I still think the cost of the service for it is obscene, though I admit that some of the things it can do are kind of neat. I don't want it because I'm not a phone talker; I've been completely happy with the pay-by-the-minute cheapie that I've had for years, and I maybe use 40 minutes of time per month. So why did I buy it? Because my job requires it now, and they do not supply phones anymore because MOST people who work here were already carrying one and don't want to have to carry two of them. Mine is still a pre-paid, though -- the cheapest one that I could find that had the features my company required.
So sometimes I have to cave and follow the crowd when it involves my job, but most of the time I'm a GDI. It takes strength to be one, though, and it always has, and not everyone has that kind of strength, just the same as not everyone had it in 1962. (Remember CIGARETTES? My Dad quit smoking in 1945 because he thought he was spending too much money on it -- everyone he knew thought he was nuts.) We don't have a plasma TV, and we don't have personal laptops, and we don't have Frette linens, and we don't have Britax carseats, and we don't have a $150/mo wireless phone plan. I've never set foot inside a Starbucks, though people oddly give me GC for them all the time (I donate them to the school auction to put them in the prize baskets.) What we do have is an 1100 sq. ft. paid-for house for our family of four; people thought we were really foolish to pay off our house back when everyone else was playing the market with their equity.
PS: 3000 sq. feet with a pool for a family of 3 *is* a mansion by my lights.