Muushka
<font color=red>I usually feel like I just stepped
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I think that in general the "get govt out of education" position tends to go hand-in-hand with the "get govt out of charity" position, so lack of investment in education would ideally have no consequence on the welfare end of things.
I think what bothers me most about the whole subject is how easily we accept and even advocate for the idea that a hard day's work has no value of its own, and that it is fine and dandy that some people should work hard every day of their lives and "accept that perhaps they just can't afford" a home or children.
That is the problem. Because so many feel that they deserve their own home or their right to have as many children as they want, with no means for either, is in part why we are in the mess that we are in.
I'll set the child aspect aside because I don't have children (by choice) but I can understand why people do. And I can understand having them, even if you can't afford them. One or two
But home ownership? Come on. Who do you think should pay for this home that you believe everyone deserves?
Trust me, I resent every single dollar of our taxes that is being wasted in this real estate mess that this country faces.
And I resent the fact that my home has lost value because of the real estate mess.
But we are by no means 'upside down'. We bought a house we could afford, not counting on anyone to help us.
I agree with you, Colleen. Many times, "poor" people work just as hard, if not harder, than the "rich".
Unfortunately the market decides which jobs pay more, not the people.
Class warfare does not help, no matter how many times it is injected into a conversation.
The person that said not everyone deserves to own a home and have children did. 
) and at times I am better at it than others but I am in control of my destiny and what is great about this country is that I have the opportunity to better myself if the opportunity arises and I have the motivation.
I was just thinking of how hard my dh and I have worked to try and achieve "middle class" and how frustrating it has been. We worked hard at our jobs, had a small business on the side, tried to do the right things, but it really didn't help when the recession came along. Dh's construction job:gone, my job:drastic cut in hours, our side work:gone for budget cuts.
I'm not happy about the student loans myself but it really stings to hear people call those of us who are trying yet again to do better "the problem" on this thread.
I enjoy your posts, you both post better than I do!